HOW DO i ASK A GIRL OUT!!!?

Question

I am the school geek and have never been out with a girl. She hardly notices me and she is the most beautiful girl in the school!!! P.S. nobody tell me to be myself or swallow what pride i have! P.P.S. i am very shy

thanks every1 but i knew all of da things u hav told me already

her personality's brilliant savannah

i'm not a complete geek every1 !!!

Answer 1

Asking a girl out is probably the most nerve-wracking thing you can do in your life when you're a school kid. If she's as nice as you say she is, she's probably already seeing someone. Even if she's not, you'll probably just make a complete fool of yourself by asking her out. If she knows you're the school geek, she won't want to be seen with you or she'll become unpopular too.

I wouldn't risk it, my friend, she could make fun of you with her friends in school for a long time afterwards and make your life a misery.

I know you have a crush on this girl, but you have to be realistic and face the truth that she's out of your league.

Answer 2

Sorry, we can't do anything, if you are a shy geek, you are never, ever going to do anything about this. The Starship Enterprise, or Princess Leia in a gold and red bikinis will be the only love interests for you.

So either make life changing choices, go the gym, start liking sports, stop playing World of Warcraft on-line, you know stop being you and become someone new, then you might get this girl, else, like all the other geeks in the world, you will find a girl geek at University who has glasses and too much facial hair, and you will end up being together, as neither of you will have the guts or self esteem to do anything else, then you can make geeky babies and start the whole destructive cycle off again!!

It's called SELF ESTEEM my lad, and no-one here can give you that, you have to find it for yourself. You see, I am an Alpha male. I walk around with my head up high, I do what I want to do and say what I want to say. Am I good looking??? Well...Hmmmm?? not great, but no pig. Do I have a 10" snake between my legs? No, pity, so why do I have self esteem? Why would I go straight up to this girl and say hello? Because I know that I am in the same boat as everyone else, and no-one is better than me, and if the girl told me to get stuffed, then it's her loss, as it's not the end of the world that this girl was not interested.

So get a grip and stop hating yourself, as I've foretold you your life path is you stay as you are.

Answer 3

1) Go get your hair done at a modern salon
2) a week later go buy some modern clothes
3) a week after that start saying 'hi' to people when you walk into a room and look them in the eye when you do so even if it kills you (act as if you are confident , you will start to feel it.)
4) a week after that make sure you include her in the 'Hi's and eye contact.
5) A week after that after that ask her straight out to a movie at 7.30 on Friday night. If she says no just say 'no problem - see you around' and chat to someone else nearby (footie/baseball anything you have practised). If she says yes ask her which film she would like to see; then turn up 10 minutes early no more
6) if she does say no make sure you keep saying hi to people with eye contact so it is not obvious you had a strategy in mind.
Remember - you are only a geek if you believe you are a geek and geeks can turn into Bill gates.

Answer 4

As you have not really spoken to her and you are not very good or close friends I would say get to know her. Make sure that you say hi to her when she does see you or if you are near to her and it convenient. Try and strike up a conversation with her when you get the chance. Not about the fact that you like her or want to go out with her, but about things that she may be involved it. If she is having difficulty with anything and you are nearby go to help her. But don't be obsessive with it. Don't run across the room or say hi everytime u see her is you see her every 5 minutes (because that sometimes happens). Pay attention to what she likes from time to time but don't stalk her.
All I can say it get on speaking terms, once you have that kind of relationship then you can go about asking her out to go somewhere or something.
I would go about that by saying something like:
hi (Jemma), I think that you are a nice and interesting person and I'd like to get to know you better, can I have you email address or something.
But realise that relationships though msn and emails etc. are always quite different from the real thing so you can get a bit closer to her and get to know more about her but don't speak to her on it every single day becaue you'll get hooked and then speaking in real-life will be very different and more difficult for you.
So first try to talk to her more and converse with her. Then anything could happen from there.
ps. the name was an example. First thing that came to my head.

Answer 5

You know that's really hard. I've never asked a boy out and am extremely shy too. I think you should really just go for it. I know you said that you were really shy and not to tell you to be yourself, but I think that's what you should do. I think you're looking for an easy way out of the scary part of dating(ha ha look who's talking) and the truth is there is no easy way out. If you really like her and think you guys could get along ...then go for it. I know I would want to be asked out. Even if she says no, she'll notice you and be flattered by the gesture. If she laughs in your face, you're too good for her anyway. I'm sorry I can't give you much more than that...and I should follow my own advice. lol. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Answer 6

So, yeah, my friend has never been out with a guy, but that does NOT mean she is hated by all the guys, and that her life is ruined and she can't have any fun. Take your time with girls, you'll find the right one, you can't expect to get everyone you want and i guarantee that you wont. If you have great friends/family/education, your life will just fall into place. It's way stupid, and you probably hear it a lot, also you told me not to say it but.......just be yourself. Its the best advice anyone can give you about dating. I'm shy too, but i still ask guys out, look on those weird guy sites that help you with dating, they help with confidence. Oh and btw, DON'T change for someone you like, cause it'd be WAY hard to keep it up!

Answer 7

The first thing you have to do is to get noticed being yourself IS the way to go anything else will be easily seen through maybe a subtle change or two wont go wrong though. Any chance you get talk to her but don't be a pest try to be confident without being pushy make her laugh with you not at you hope things work out for you good luck .

Answer 8

honestly mate im a guy and im 20 and I was the queit boy so I kinda know where ur coming from and I promise you the best advice comes from -pixielee21egypt

do what she says but help her with homework on a subject she is terrible at - doesnt matter if your just as bad or only slightly or miles better, the important thing is to spend time with her so she trusts you and doesnt percieve you as something which you are not, after all your a good guy but at the moment she thinks your nothing, spend time with her, help her and let her warm to you and your style and only when she feels comfy with you can you mention the word date
for the mean time it has to just be friends and whilst helping her with work pick up on her fav. interests like her fav band and just drop it into conversation e.g. put on the radio and listen to the song and go... oh I wish band (her fav band) was on they are so cool and you can strike it up from there

Answer 9

if she is a snobb then forget it because first of all you shouldnt want to go out with her and second of all she probably already has a dumb snobby bf
ask her one day if she wants you to carry her books for her or somthing
then when you see her smile or say hi be friendly not shy but dont be TO friendly
if she is nice to you in return then just keep being nice and friendly and be a gentlman
after 1 or 2 week of being nice and stuff then ask her if you could sit with her at lunch if she says no then its ok she probably wasnt right for you anyway

Answer 10

I would wear the coolest clothes you have, chnage your hair, and act less "geek" -ish. Make some new friends so you seem more popular. She might notice you more. Make sure she knows who you are first. Just say "hi" every now and then so she knows who you are. Raise your hand less in class. Start playing liek football at lunch or whatever. Then ask.

For the askign part, just go up to her and ask. she'll probably appreciate it, even if she says no.