ok so he like tries to get me 2 like do stuff thats like not 4 my age help wut should i do? i mean i still love him like a lot but not that much!?!?! pleez help! anything will be appreciated! =(
2007-02-25 07:30:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not talkin like ahem if ya no wat i like meen!!!!! Gross!!!! I mean like dark movie, get closer and closer if ya know wat im talkin about. IM ONLY THIRTEEN! JEEZ STOP SWEARING!!!
2007-02-25 07:44:59 · update #1
Any guy/boy who really cares for a girl won't pressure her if she's not ready. Tell your b/f straight out that you're just not ready for what he wants and if he respects you, then he'll stop. If he says he'll respect you if you give in, then break things off immediately. You have plenty of time for this and hopefully you will wait until you're married. Enjoy your life as a teenager.
2007-03-05 06:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are, but it sounds like you're young. First off, if he was seriously in love with you, he wouldn't try to make you feel uncomfortable doing things. If he loved you he would wait until you feel ready to move farther. Any boy you ever go out with should never be trying to get you to do things that you don't feel comfortable with, even if it's just a kiss. You need to talk to him and tell him you don't want to be doing those things with him, becasue in the long run if you do it becasue you think he will break up with you if you dont, you're going to feel ashamed and you're going to look back on it and wish you would have said no.
I hope this helps you.
2007-02-25 07:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by caity8904 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is trying to get you to do stuff that you don't feel comfortable with, that isn't love, sweetie. That's him wanting to pressure you. Trust me, don't do it. You'll regret it later if you do it too soon, and it's likely that he will move on and get it from someone else, even if you give it to him.
Don't do things that you aren't ready for, because you'll regret it. Do what you are ready for, even if that's just hugs and holding hands.
Also remember, if you are talking sexual stuff, the only 100% safe sex, is to not have sex at all. You don't want to end up posting a question on Yahoo!Answers later saying, "I'm pregnant! What do I do?" or "I think I have an STD... help!" Don't be a statistic. Do what you feel is right, and say no to what you aren't ready for.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 07:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by eastbaywhatsername 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Emily, if the question you really want to ask is: my boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I think I'm too young and I don't know if I love him enough, why don't you just ask that?
And take this from a guy who's been there, if he's asking you and trying to put any kind of pressure on you, he just wants to get in your pants. Here's a good tip, tell him that you'll do anything he asks the day of your 2-yr anniversary, see what he says, then go from there.
2007-02-25 07:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your not ready for what he is wanting to do. In this situation I am guessing you are talking about sex.? If so, tell him you are waiting until you get married. If he is really pushy, I would break up with him. If you let your relationship continue, he will keep pushing and pushing and its likely you will give in. You would probably have a lot of remorse. If I was in this relationship, I would have a serious convo with him or break up with him.
2007-02-25 07:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he actually LOVED you, he wouldn't pressure you to do stuff that you don't want to do. Sweetie, he doesn't love you. If he's telling you to have sex with him (or do "other" stuff), then you should end this relationship as soon as possible because he's just using you. If you don't want to do something, then don't do it, do not force yourself because you will regret it. I'm sorry if I sound mean, but I'm only trying to help. Good luck, and remember, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-02-25 07:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. When he tries to get you to do something you don't want to do, tell him that you don't want to and are not ready. Don't let him pressure you into doing things you don't want to. If you really aren't that interested in him, break up with him. There's no use in stinging him along when you don't even want to be with him. It's a waste of time for both of you.
Anyway, talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If he can't respect you by listening and complying with your wishes, he doesn't deserve you.
2007-02-25 07:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it. He wants you to do what kind of stuff that's not for your age. If you are talking about sex and he wants that then let him know that you are not ready for that yet. And if he tries to tell you that you don't love him if you don't have sex with him then you need to leave him alone. He can't possibly love or respect you if he is trying to force you to have sex with him.
2007-02-25 07:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK enough with the LIKE stuff first of all. If you feel that way about him just get rid of him. Ecspecially if he wants you to do things you are not ready for.
2007-02-25 07:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by HOT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's pressuring you, he's not 'seriously in love with you'
If you don't want to do the things he's asking for, tell him straight up. Say, I really care, but I don't want to do X, Y and Z with you. I'm not ready.
2007-02-25 07:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋