i just broke up with my girlfriend but before that i had a girlfriend named alex before and i broke up with her but now i want to go out with her again how should i tell her?
2007-02-25 07:29:47 · 17 answers · asked by Christopher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say something to her like: i am sorry that i diched you earlyer but i have to tell you...and tell her how your feelings have changed about her saying that she is so helpful to you and she is a great person and all...
2007-02-25 07:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you should be asking yourself is why do you want to go there again? Why did you break it off with these two gals? Did you have the same problems dating them? Do you need to take a break from dating and do some self inventory about why you keep doing this? And why would this other gal want to go out with you again? Especially if it was a particularly hurtful break-up. Girls hurt deeper than guys, and have very long memories. If you've had great times with your former girlfriend, it's understandable why you'd want to rekindle that relationship. I think you need to take a break. Jumping from one relationship to another doesn't solve the deeper problems of why you're doing this. Whether you know this or not, these girls have feelings. And if you're in junior high, you'd better watch your back! These gals have the habit of comparing notes, and have hit lists with guys names on them. Again, I'd leave the serious dating alone, and just have fun. Wait until you've got all your schooling done before getting into any serious relationships. Dating right now just takes up too much brain power, and you may need all you've got! <*)))><
2007-02-25 07:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first why did you break up her to began with? Was it over a fight because you wanted to be with another woman? Those reason matter to most woman. If it was over a silly fight then tell her you are sorry. You made a mistake and want another chance. If she refuses then don't push her. Maybe ask her to be friend.
If it was over some girl. Like you broke up her for another woman. Still apologized, Do not use the line (She meant nothing to me.) We woman know that's not true and can right past your manly lies.
But whatever the case always start with I'm sorry and if she doesn't take you back move on. And find someone else.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 07:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Monkeynuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if the two of you can give it another try. That you still want to be with her, let her know how you fell and then give her time to think on it. If you try to get her to answer right a way she'll more then likely say no.
2007-02-25 07:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kathleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you broke up with her she won't want to date you again. By the way if you have to ask strangers online what to do, you shouldn't even be dating at all.
2007-02-25 07:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been in this situation. Tell her you can't live without her. Tell her that now that you know what life w/out her is like, that you want her again.
-Best of Luck
2007-02-25 07:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by tjfirey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest..tell her you feel that you made a mistake, and would like another chance with her! See where it goes.
2007-02-25 07:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you know how stupid you were and then you should tell her that you really want to get back together because you really like her. That should help.
2007-02-25 07:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you made a big mistake and you want to know if she would give you another chance and that you are sorry goodluck hope it works out
2007-02-25 07:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with telling her that you think that you all made a mistake and should try @ it again...sound REALLY SINCERE. And even apologize a little.
2007-02-25 07:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ r3tr0.diva♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋