i was raped wen i was like in grade 3 in india by my cousin! n at dat time ididnt even knew wah rape meant! he was old like 17 or smthin he was always close to me n stuff anf touch me all de time n as far as i remember he also put his private part into mine n i was like wat de hek! buh i jus ignored it i didnn tell no one as i never knew the meaning n stuff! buh wen nowi no wah it meens do u think i should tell my parents or i just keep quiet n he z married now!
plz tell me!
2007-02-25 07:16:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You should tell an adult you trust. If you trust your parents will listen to you then you should tell them, if they won't then talk with someone else. If he did that to you then he has done it before, his wife has a right to know too. Also, it is good for you to tell so you can get some support and maybe even some counseling.
I read the other question you posted to and wrote an answer. It seems like this is happening too much in your family. Please find someone you can talk to and that will support you for both of these issues.
2007-02-25 18:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by RedPower Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just go on with your life. I think making something that happened in private public will just be destructive. Teens and children experiment with sex all the time, I do not think what happened to you is extremly unusual. I have heard so many stories from friends about very early childhood sex experiences that I think it is just part of growing up. People who tell you something awful happened to you and you are a "victim" and you need to make others suffer because of it are not thinking clearly and are just parroting the media hysteria regarding sex. I know too many women who talk about things that happened to them and laugh about it I am sure you do not have an extreme reaction about it.
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I think some people with personal shortcomings try to find some event in their lives to "blame" their shortcomings on instead of taking personal responsibility for their life. I also think people who look to government to solve their personal problems are just hurting themselves.
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2007-02-26 16:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tell someone please!!!!!! It's unacceptable. I don't know if your culture looks down on raped women, so please tell someone who won't automatically judge you. And please help others who are in your situation to do the same and get help.
2007-02-26 19:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by nicoleblingy2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your parents because he migth do that to his kids
2007-02-25 20:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by emo elmo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋