Here are some ideas to help you get closer to your children.
Most families should find time for fun activities like boardgames or going to the movies together. Encourage them to take up a sport or instrument, then always be there to cheer them on. Take some time to talk with each of them individually, and give them advice when they need it. Be a playful father with your younger kids, and set a good example for them all as you watch them grow. Help them with homework, take the family on a trip to the beach or Disneyland. Show them that you care, and that you love them.
2007-02-25 07:24:24
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answered by ? 5
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It's never too late. If it's uncomfortable for you, try sitting down and writing a heartfelt letter for those old enough to understand. Admit your mistakes and your regrets, and tell them you love them--even though the past may have made them feel that you didn't. The two year old should be gradually eased into a relationship with you, if he doesn't know. I think it is very honorable that you have recognized the important aspects of your life. Good luck....
2007-02-25 07:59:57
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answered by sassy_395 4
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never too late love good on you,get in touch with them be subtle and patient as they may feel a little hurt at you hardly being there in past,but every child needs a father ask advice of the mother or mothers how best to approach the situation. Good luck and be strong may be rough times ahead but well worth it in the long run :)
2007-02-25 07:31:22
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answered by clare w 4
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It is never too late. Good for you for finally coming around to this. Start scheduling time today with your children. Don't start the relationships unless you are going to follow through on a consistant basis for the rest of your life. Just showing up here and there will cause them more pain and they don't need that.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 07:20:38
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answered by Raspberry 6
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Not too late, but it won't be easy either.
Try to be honest and up front, especially with the older kids.
Tell them you messed up and feel terrible about how you've treated them.
Unless they know you're sorry and you apologize properly, why should they trust you enough to open up.
If you were in their shoes you'd expect an apology.
Good luck and I really wish you well, you're going to be so glad in the long run that you're doing this. Nothing is more important than our children.
2007-02-25 07:24:10
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answered by alisongiggles 6
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It is never too late to give them love, and affection, tell them sorry you didn't get spend lots of time with. tell team your finical problems you have and let get in voled in your family things, and ask them how was your day. or do you want to make some lunch together or even how's your day.
2007-02-25 07:31:54
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answered by Greenflower 2
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It's still about you, isn't it?
Start somewhere, anywhere and dedicate the rest of your life to making amends. If not, leave them alone.
My husband and I are raising a grandchild whose father is in jail and mother in a halfway house.
And someone told her life is supposed to be fair.
2007-02-25 08:00:42
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answered by Butterflie927 3
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First of all its not too late Secondly Spend time and make connections.
2007-02-25 09:44:56
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answered by Anonymous
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its never to late. spend time with them, talk to them. show them you care and your interested in their lives.
2007-02-25 12:59:02
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answered by luv_rats 2
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they will resent you for awhile...but with weekly visits they will get to know you again...be slow because it will be a tough road...but you will get what you want in the end.
2007-02-25 07:35:23
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answered by Anonymous
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