I was taking a walk with my boyfriend and he gave me a hug I feel shy to tell him my feelings and kiss him but I dont know how either. We were in a field outside my house in the shade at night and he kissed me and felt my bum I know this is an odd place to say but I dont know how to react back. Do I kiss him and feel his bum or what do I do all those who were shy at first with their boyfriend or girlfriend please help!!!
2007-02-25 07:04:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel uncomfortable with what he did, just gently redirect his hands next time he tries it. Move them to your hips, your waist, your arms, your shoulders, your face, or anywhere you feel comfortable. This is a subtle but clear way to tell him that you're not quite ready for a more sexual approach to kissing. It is imperative that you feel comfortable with him. If you feel like he's rushing things, don't be afraid to be firm about what your personal boundaries are. As for kissing him, don't feel obligated to...erm..."return the favor" in terms of where you place your hands. Put your arms around him, run your fingers through his hair, or gently hold his face between your hands. Show him what you'd like him to do for you when you kiss. :-)
Best of luck!
2007-02-25 07:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by lyricesden 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. The first time I was ever kissed, it felt wrong because like in books and films it looks so instinctive, but I felt very conscious and didn't know what to do.
It will come naturally, trust me. Kiss him back, do what he does, tell him that you're nervous and let him teach you. Kissing, despite reports, is something that does have to be learnt. Do what feels good, too. He won't think you're weird or anything.
2007-02-25 15:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lyra B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the most important thing in a relationship is being honest with your partner. If him toughing ur butt makes you uncomfortable then you should let him know. tell him how u feel even if its hard to do. I'm not saying you have to run out and do it but, you probably will feel better after you do.
2007-02-25 15:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about it, Just do what feels natural and comfortable to do, and don't be afraid to tell him if he is making you uncomfortable or doing things you aren't happy with. You shouldn't feel pressured into going further than you want to. There's no hard and fast rules about how to react in those situations, just make sure you aren't doing anything your not happy with.
2007-02-25 15:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faint ydy dy oed di hogan..??How old are you girl??
Hwn ydy dy gariad cyntaf? Is this your first boyfriend?
Paid a gwneud dim os nad wyt yn barod.Don't do anything unless you're ready.
Mae hogia'n ddrwg am roi pwysau ar ferched i fynd yn bellach.
Boys are notorious for pushing girls to go further.
2007-02-28 18:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
? Y r u asking this? If u'r uncomfortable wiv wot he did then slap him. If u liked it respond as U c comfortable!! Don't do anything U don't feel comfortable with. Don't let him pressure you into doing anything. Take it easy. Be cool.
2007-02-25 15:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax let your self go a bit kiss him that should show him how much you like him once you have done that their is no turning back.good luck and enjoy!
2007-02-25 15:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by hunnybunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything your uncomfortable with. the time will come when you will know it is write he maybe more affectionate than you everyone is different. you will get there in the end just relax and the rest will come naturally. good luck x
2007-02-25 15:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by lou. c. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same he did 2 u of course and dont hesitate just go 4 it!
2007-02-25 15:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the Bumb!
2007-02-25 15:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋