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I am 14 BTW. I am the type of girl that is not boy crazy I don't need a boyfriend all of the time but I do have some crushes here and there. I have never had a boyfriend or been kissed. All of my friends had that in like 3rd or 4th grade so I can't relate to them. I am very girly! I love shopping and make up. I was just wondering if these types of girls (like me) eventually get married and get a boyfriend. Oh and am I weird because I have never had a boyfriend or been kissed and do any of you out there know anyone like me. Thanks!

2007-02-25 07:02:06 · 13 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Don't even worry about it... you just be yourself and somewhere down the road you'll meet a nice guy and eventually get married... you are 14 years old, enjoy being young and doing things you enjoy...there is no hurry when it comes to matters of the heart.

2007-02-25 07:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 0 0

Hunnie, it is definately okay to be this type of girl. My best friend is exactly like you. She got her first boyfriend just after she graduated. It was her first kiss too. She just got engaged! That could definately be you.

I regret dating while i was young. Honestly its kind of stupid. There are only a certain amount of places you could go at that age, and there wasn't too much at that age that I wanted to do. I wasn't ready to loose my virginity till I was older, and for me there was enough drama in junior high and high school as it was. Dont rush. Whats the rush. If someone does come up, expressing the fact that he likes you, if you like him, then go for it. It could be really great. Probably wont last, but you'll figure out the type of person you are looking for in the future.

Have fun while you are young. And dont think that you wont get married when you get older. WHen the time comes, it'll come and it'll be fantastic for you!

2007-02-25 15:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0 0

i am 19 and i got a boyfriend of going on 5yrs and we have 2 kids together....let that show you that by thinking about this stuff tooo early can get you in quite a adult life really fast and early...i was a little bit like you. and trust me this stuff unfolds by it's self. don't worry you have a long time to think about this stuff... you should be thinking of your schooling and what you want to do after that because let me tell you those are the things that really matter in the end...and then of course making a family and all that should come when your mature and have your own life figured out before you start one with someone else. trust me kid...learn from my experiance stay away from boys and relationships utill you have your life the way you want it. relationships and being in love is a wonderfull experiance but it can be soooo sooo much better when you've got yourself situated. don't worry about it you'll get there one day and trust me time flys. you'll remember asking this and then laugh!

2007-02-25 15:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by iluvmje 2 · 0 0

You are 14. Dont rush things. The boy craze thing will happen in time. You are not weird or abnormal so dont worry. I was a late bloomer too. I didnt have my first kiss with a guy till I was a junior in high school.

2007-02-25 15:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0 0

I don't know girls your age like this and my daughter is a lot younger (elem. school), but she has never really had a little 'boyfriend' even though most of the other little boys and girls in her class do...she's just not interested in it...and my son is like you in reverse. He never had g/f's in elementary school like some of the other boys. His first was at the end of 7th grade. He had this one g/f over that summer and for most of his 8th grade year, then they broke up. He never asked another girl out then he and this same girl started being b/f and g/f again towards the end of 8th grade. They broke up again in early 9th grade (he's in 9th now) b/c they started going to different schools. He never asked her to be his g/f, she always asked him. He has never asked another girl out but I know he likes them...thinks girls are nice/hot/pretty, etc., when I ask him about any new girls, etc., he says he just likes being 'single'...says it's easier. I think it is perfectly normal. I've told him that it's fine not to worry about girls right now and you should do the same. Note...he is busy too...sports...soccer, basketball, golf, he's a ref for soccer too...and he's smart and cute! I bet you are too...don't worry about boys...that will happen when you are ready for it too! It's perfectly okay...and you will most likely get married one of these days! Good luck!

2007-02-25 15:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Stealth_1 2 · 0 0

well you were like me up until 11 months, [[me and my BF, been together 11 months today]] im 15 in may, but now i have found my boyfriend...and until then i had never had a boyfriend, or been kissed, or really been that boy crazy..but i found the one i love. so yes with fate and destiny, you will find a boyfriend, and possibly the one you love! =D

2007-02-25 15:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm just like u! im 14 too. i just had a boyfriend but we're over now. don't worry i think that every girl will be kissed and/ or have a boyfriend. but stay single as long as u can cuz men suck.

2007-02-25 15:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by kb293 2 · 0 0

Yes, that was me. I never had a boyfriend until I was 16. And still didn't have sex until I became a legal adult.

But once you start getting noticed, and taking notice of guys, time starts moving really fast.

2007-02-25 15:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by ltygress 3 · 0 0

I'M VERY HAPPY FOR YOU!! Yes i know many girls like this. My friends that are like that are happily married and have children. They were a virgin when they got married. Its like they have the perfect life. Unfortunately i was nowhere NEAR like that. You're not weird...you're SMART. Good LUCK!

2007-02-25 15:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0 0

You are PERFECTLY normal! Just because you have not kissed or dated a guy doesn't make you weird and just because your friends has doesn't mean you have to. You seem to know what you want and that is what guys want so keep on being yourself.

2007-02-25 15:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0 0

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