i just moved to georgia from ohio to be with my 8 yr old and her father. ive been here a week and we are already fighting everyday. he is a control freek bad we just argued over him trying to make my daughter eat burnt pizza and i said that was rediculous she doesnt have to. I left my five year old in ohio with her father and have a five month old here. the fact that my eight and five year old live with there father cant be changed. It was a decision made in court. i want to go back home but my eight year old will be devistated. but at the same time me and her father fighting all the time is not good for her either. what should i do. im home sick i miss my family in ohio. expecially my five year old who ive never been seperated from. my 8 year olds dad convinced me that she needed me and that i should move here. what am i doing to my kids. I feel like a terrible mom
2007-02-25 07:00:03 · 4 answers · asked by mygirlsx3hmc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
.,you are a terrible mom, and should just stop the sex ,go home !stop putting out . Get a job ,be honest, don't lie, seek a being of your choice ;god or whatever u believe in. Give it a year stop any addictions you may have, after your working and on a even keel you will be there for all ur kids ,cause you will be you not a shell of the asswipes you have been having sex with!
2007-02-25 07:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by mike g 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You are not a terrible mom, you sound like you care and love your children and want what is best for all of them. Is there any way you could move into another place, and then go and get your other children to come and live with you? I hope so. What a sad situation. If you could anyway possible, suggest to him calmly that it would be best for all the children to be together, maybe he would consider changing the custody order. It's a long shot, but if cares about anyone besides himself, maybe he would consider it. I wish the best of luck in whatever you have to do.
2007-02-25 08:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a terrible mom...I'm sure that yes you made mistakes...but you seem like you know that and you are trying...Why cant you get a place of your own out there with your eight year old....or if you do plan on going back to Ohio...why don't you take her with you...no matter what your decision ends up...Please stay in touch with your kids...I think that no matter what they will at least know that you tried and You love them...also when you do have time with them...make that time special....and about them....Good luck hun...
2007-02-25 07:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try living in a different house, that way you only have to see each other when you pick the child up for a visit.
2007-02-25 08:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋