do you believe that first love never dies? why/why not?

Question

first love....that also means that first person that you kissed..gave all your heart out..promised forever..talked about your future with..did everything for that person..and yeah..first love! do you think..if you broke up with that person even though you still love him but you think it's the right thing to do..to set him free because you felt that he doesn't love you back anymore and that it would make him much happier.....someday you two are still gonna be together? please explain your thoughts, ideas, suggestions, advises..and other stuff you want to share... :'(

Answer 1

I am a firm believer that your first love never dies, as much as I have tried to move, you always sit back and wonder what have come of you and your first love. Would you have gotton married, would you have had kids. I even often compare my male friends with my first love. To see if they meet the standard of my first love. I am still in love with my first love, but even though i know it will never work, it doesn't hurt to dream. Ya know. I just wish that my first love, was still mine and mine only.

Answer 2

I still remember my first love. He was such a beautiful young man. I loved him so very much, but it did not work out for us. But I still have a special place in my heart for him.

If you feel that your young man does not really love you anymore then the best thing for both of you is to let him go. Whether or not you wind up back together just depends on serendipity.

I will tell you a story now about one of my high-school girlfriends. She fell in love with a boy that lived next door to her at the tender age of 11. They were together all the time. They even started going "steady" (is that term ever used anymore?) when they turned 14!
Then his family moved away, and he started going to a different school and they decided it was best that they break up for awhile. They lost touch and sort of forgot about each other.

Ruthann, my girlfriend started dating this other guy in our high school and everyone thought they were the perfect match! They were even voted the Junior Prom King and Queen! He gave her a ring and everyone thought they would get married as soon as we all graduated. But David wanted to become a doctor, and he did not want to get married until after college. They had a terrible fight and broke up right after graduation.

Ruthann got a job after that, and met another young man who she ended up moving in with. It was a bad scene though because he was into drugs and he liked to hit her.

So she got away from him and moved back in with her mom for awhile when who should show up for a visit but her first love? Oh yes! It had been 9 years but it was like they never parted! They got married two months later! They have been married 30 years now and have five sons and 12 grandchildren! That's the story.

True story.

Answer 3

Believe me, it feels now that it's the end of the world....but you will come across other people who will move your heart. U have been very strong to let him go. I admire that move. First love makes a big impression on our hearts....and we never really get over in the sense that a lil pain will always remain when u think bout the person 10 years from now.....but you know what, you'd be over him in the sense that it wont hold you back. U'd be living a life...u'd be going out with someone new who u truly like....u'd be loved, u'd have a whole life going on. I would suggest u dont keep hopes of the both of u coming back together. Keeping a hope alive can be very painful. It might lead u to many disappointments which u dont deserve. U have already been through a lot. Let it go.....if it is meant to be, he will return, trust me.

Answer 4

The first person u kiss is not necessarily your first love. Anyway...I do believe that first love never dies. If it was really love. WHich means if you split apart and didnt see each other for 15 years and sudddenly saw each other in the mall, you'd still love each other and probably have the desire to be with each other. The love would still be there. Even if you had someone else. So yes....i believe that

Answer 5

Any love can fade and die, and quite often does (esp after a relationship ends)...however sometimes it will just change into a more platonic "I care about that person" kind of love/caring.

We may not ever forget the first person we loved or kissed or had sex with...but it's quite possible to stop loving them...in fact, considering the age this occurs for many (teens) it's likely that it was never actually love at all, but lust and/or infatuation...

Answer 6

As it is said, if u love something set it free-if it comes back to you it's yours-but if it doesn't -it never was.
Yes i believe that first love does die eventually-it takes a little longer for some depending on the circumstance.

What lives forever is the memory.
We all have lots of love to give, if not to the one we first did - to the new someone who would come along.

Better to have loved and lost-than never to have loved at all.

Answer 7

First love never dies. If it was true. If you find out later or when breaking up that one person didn't actually like the other and all was a lie.... what do you think? But if they had to be torn apart because of family and school and never got their chance... it lives on.

Answer 8

Of course it will get better with time. But I think that you may not love the person anymore, you're still gonna have strong feelings towards them because of all the memories and firsts. But I think some people confuse that feeling with still loving the person.

But then again, some people do still love them.

Answer 9

The most powerful thing is time.
When time goes, when you are with a real right person, your first love will only be a sweet or painful memory, a part of your history, not your future anymore. So we can say, it goes away.

Answer 10

your first love never dies. it's a learning point in life on how to be an adult. you can't make someone love you but those feelings for that one special person never dies, as you grow older you can look back on your first love and remember that sweet time in your life.