for my summer vacation im going to italy for one month withmy family- i have no choice. my boyfriend told me he's gunna be so upset that he might end us if i go to italy. last time i went to italy i cheated on my boyfriend and he's worried i will do that to him ---but i wont! i swear! i learned from my mistakes... and i love him... i love him so damn much it breaks my heart for him to think id cheat on him, i would never ever! ...but still... i would be away from him for one month... id miss his birthday too....... how can i make sure i can keep him? make sure he never leaves me? :(
2007-02-25 06:47:48 · 7 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was my ex-bf that i cheated on before.... this man is a new one, and hopefully the last
2007-02-25 06:56:31 · update #1
WELL I THINK A REALTIONSHIP IS BASED ON TRUST AND IF HE DOESNT TRUST U MAYBE HE DOESNT LOVE U AND U MIGHT BE WASTIN UR TIME WITH HIM BUT IT KINDA SOUNDS LIKE UR YOUNG BUT THE WORLD IS FULL OF GUYS IF IT DOESNT HAPPEN WITH HIM THEN THERES ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE HAVE FUN IN ITALY DONT WORRY AND IM PERTTY SURE HE WILL BE WAITING ON U ANYWAYS WELL HOPE I ANSWERED UR QUESTION
2007-02-25 06:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like every girl that goes to Italy for a month, cheats on their boyfriends. Thank God, I am 1/8 Italian ;)
Of course he doesn't trust you, you cheated on him once and he took you back, now you are going again to the same place. I'd say go, but be good, call him everyday and reassure him you are being a good girl. Its going to be tough, one month is a long long time....I guess we will see how much you truly love him.
2007-02-25 14:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to convince him that you have no choice but to go and if he is going to be so immature and not trust you then he should have left you a long time ago and stop throwing this **** up in your face ever time you get away from him . Tell him that if he wants to act this way then you 2 can just break up and you will find some one that will trust you . I hate when people say they forgive you and they really don't . GOOD LUCK !!!!
2007-02-25 14:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force anyone to never leave you. If it is meant to be, and if it is true love, then all will be the same when you get back. You are the one to blame for this mess anyways. You are the one who did the cheating. Now he doesn't trust you, and I don't blame him either. Enjoy your vacation and you will see when you get home. Good luck
2007-02-25 14:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to trust u. And u also have to keep that trust. The best you can do is to keep in good touch with him. Let him know everything u r doing there....and keep in touch with his life too. Do something special on his birthday. Send him a surprise gift or flowers...from there. Do you best, and leave the rest. If he is meant to stick, he will.
2007-02-25 14:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go on this family vacation and I can understand why he doesn't trust you but if he ends your relationship then that was whats in the cards for you guys. I am sorry, but realtionships are never easy.
2007-02-25 14:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Stumped 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just PRINT that paragraph and show it to him ;)
it would explain everything.
2007-02-25 14:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋