Gf Family Problems, Can You Help Me???

Question

Well my gf Mom, Grandma, Sister (her father lives separatly) hate me and i never did anything to them its probably 'cause she us to come to my house instead of a afterschool program then they found out but how can i prove to them that iam a nice guy and i mean no harm to them and daughter?

Answer 1

I dont think you really can prove it to them, you have to just be yourself and deal with it for now, at least that is what I had to do. Wait for them to come around in their own time.

Answer 2

You can't. Just show you're a good guy by being a good guy.

Her family may be unable and/or unwilling to accept any BF. Fighting to win their approval could be pointless and impossible.

My MIL is like that, wouldn't have accepted anyone as a DIL, because she wanted total control over her son.

Not every family is healthy enough to accept their children growing up.

Answer 3

you can tell her family that if she's coming at you're house after school cz i'm helping her with her homeworks and you say that you got problems at your place and she still need your help so you're going to study at her place if it's yes you should stay on a desk put some books and when they enter you act like you are explaining her something and when there is no one you talk and stay toghether !!

Answer 4

you should try inviting them all out to eat and treat ur gf like a queen holding doors open and pushing out her chair!! and go over to her house ever other weekend to show to them that u like them to and like spending time with them....they probably dont want their daughter to leave them one day for a boyfriend and are trying to scare you off...if they absolutely hate u then dont push anything yall were probably ment to be but if its jealousy hate for stealing their daughter away they'll get over it soon!! just treat them all like high class people and be respectful!!!