i have a bf,
when he proposed to me he was very caring n was whole heartedly dedicated to me,
n now after a month i feel he is totally changed
he doesnt listen to me
he does not care weather i talk to him or not
please tell me what should i do
2007-02-25 06:37:50 · 8 answers · asked by muskaan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT be so needy of him...TRUST ME a guy likes an independent woman....because they know we are smarter then them. If you are needy of someone who is stupid, when it comes to a relationship, then he isn't going to feel like you know what your doing....
BE INDEPENDENT it will turn him on, it will make you look strong and sexy!
If he says he's going to the store or somewhere close...don't cry to go with him...just say OK I'LL SEE YA WHEN YOU GET BACK...and don't smother him with your company or your body all the time. A guy likes it if a woman sits on the other side of the couch... on her own....
We all know a guy cant stand not feeling important or not feeling good enough, So, when guy sees a girl being independent then he thinks he's not good enough to be needed...so there for he will start showing you he needs you. Then he will be the one to give YOU attention.
They need to feel important (not in control) and when you need him, he feels like he has to live up to an expectation that he is to afraid to meet, because men know they are not smart when it comes to relationships....So you need to be the one who is in control and he needs to be the one who is needy, it makes him not so afraid in an environment he knows nothing about and that environment is the relationship!
2007-02-25 06:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by RachelLeAnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well I think that you should talk to him, and if that doesn't work than you sould dump him or go to a dating counselor. If he treats your really bad to the point of hitting you, runaway and don't marry him. Think about if he is now engaged to you and treats you like this, imagen when your marryed.
2007-02-25 14:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by sims 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proposed? He asked you to marry him? Did you know this guys personality at all? Sounds to me like you are rushing things a bit, if he is a jerk, then leave him.
2007-02-25 14:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what is happening and why is the reason of his change.if you don't believe his answer you should probably need get a boyfriend that wont lie to you. Good Luck.
2007-02-25 14:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say..... go talk to him and have his views on the issue. Then.... if you turn out to be right in your assumption that he is taking you for granted.... STOP CALLING HIM!
2007-02-25 15:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by King of Hearts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? He might just not be ready for a long turm relationship yet.
2007-02-25 14:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by 19Cheergirl95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is you who have changed, you are having doubts and second thoughts
2007-02-25 14:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by seethingsucant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else.
2007-02-25 14:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋