do men lose interest when they get too comfortble?

Question

hi I was just wondering from a guys point of view do guys get to comfortble with a girl when they talk all the time and can say anything to her before even meeting or having sex ? does that ruin the the mystery of it all? or do guys want a girl that is their best friend and they can joke around with and say anything too ? th reason I am asking is I have gotten to know this guy for a few months before meeting and we get along great can say anything to each other have very similiar values and we met recently hit if off great had lots of fun and their was an attraction all night he couldnt take his eyes off me and didnt stop smiling but now he said he wanted to take it slow and be friends that he isnt feeling it . so do guys need the thrill of the chase ?? before all this I was the one who wanted to wait months to meet and a little background on him he does have a big ego and almost wouldnt meet me because i was taking too long to meet him any answers would be great thank

just a note we didnt have sex yet since we only went on one date so far ..I did notice things changing a few weeks ago before we met he started calling a little less but now after meeting said he wanted the date to be friendly an innocent date and that we got ahead of ourselves and should be friends since we get along great he really is not the type to be a player he has only had serious relationships in the past but I do know he is very picky and tends to write off people if things dont go his way

Answer 1

Here is the long and short of it. Guys are physically attracted to a woman FIRST and later become emotionally attracted. It would benefit a woman to become armed with this knowledge when meeting guys. It will save you a lot of emotional strife and difficulty down the line. Men are chauvinistic by nature and when you mix in having to deal with hormones, you have a raging dog who will say and do anything to get in a woman's pants! This is the reason men don't mature until they are over 30. So you would be a lot better off making sure that a guy is emotionally attracted to you before you become intimate with him. This takes time but will be well worth the effort. Take it from a guy!!

Answer 2

I feel some guys who are players and do not want to have commitment with girls and they would pretend that they like whatever we do and say things we would like to hear. Most of the time, they just need to have sex with girls in order to obtain some fulfillment. Usually, they said they would like to take it slow the reason behind it because they have a new target in their life. My suggestion for you probably start looking for someone else.....He might be a player and not serious. He is probably a guy withhold information.

Answer 3

weird. I dunno.

With me, I love to be spontaneous. I tell my boyfriends that I tend to get bored with relationships, so if things are going well, that he should always try to make little things more exciting to make me not loose interest.

If he wants to be left alone, then leave him. Find someone that wants to be with you. Dont wait for him to come back, you might be waiting a while, and he might find someone else.

Answer 4

oh my dear. your at that point. no it is not that he has lost interest, he just got comfortable. i mean what's there to chase when he has you now as his partner.

ive seen my husband evolve from always calling me, sending me sweet texts, clubbing from thurs- sunday to being a quite relaxed little thing. it doesnt mean he's not interested anymore he still is. its just that he doesnt need to make that effort anymore since he hitched.

remember you said comfortable, if he seems completely disinterested then you are in for problems.