Well, we're friends. We're not that close, but seemingly getting closer. Well, I've kinda....fallen in love with her. (we're in high school) Sometimes it seems as if she likes me.....but sometimes it doesn't. Today was one of the latter days..... Well, the end of today anyway. I've asked her to hang out with me twice in the last few weeks, like yesterday....but both times she's been busy. She's not lying. She really does have a lot of stuff going on, but still......I don't know. We flirt all the time, and she's always soooo nice to me. And I really really like her. I've tried to focus on other girls, but they just can't compare. Please don't say "just tell her how you feel" or something like that. I want to just hang out with her one on one, have some time alone with her, get to know her better, if you know what I mean. It would be nice if she make the first move, but we know that's not gonna happen lol. Besides, I'm not even very confident that she likes me. *sigh*. What am I to do?
2007-02-25 06:22:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seems to know her well. Ask her out a day that you know she would go out with you then you will see the way she treats you then you would get more confident and you will know what to do.Treat her nice i mean be sweet, and you will win her love. And if you don't feel that she is the right girl after you go out with her it means that she is not the right girl for you.Remember try to go out with her more than 2 times then you will see if she likes you.Be a good man and a real gentlemen,but be yourself.GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-25 06:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say do u have any free time?If see says yes say would u like to go out to the movies. Then when the movie is over,u and her could go to a restaurant and eat and then talk a Little bit.get to know her and she could get to know u.When u guess walk home maybe.You could kiss if she makes the move or u can make the move.The boys are always suppose to make the first move.
2007-02-25 06:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. If she really likes you and decides she wants to spend some one on one time with you, she'll let you know. Don't stop caring for her, though. And I hate to say it, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Keep doing what you're doing and things will work out the way they are suppose to. (I know, sounds corny)
You will be fine. And if she happens not to be in love with you, then remember this...you were Friends first, and may be able to remain close friends for life.
2007-02-25 06:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you know she's real busy, and doesn't have a lot of extra time. But when she does, you'd like to spend some time with her. Suggest a movie, bowling, or grabbing something to eat. As long as she knows that you'd like to spend time with her when she's able, you've done you're part...... now it's up to her to tell you when she might be free to hang out.
2007-02-25 06:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok so here whut to do tell her i would like to get together with you so would you like to grab a bite to eat with me and if she says yes then ask her when its good for her then say she says wednesday then dont make plans for wednesday and go out with her and if she says no then ask her why not and maybe she dose not like you or maybe shes really really busy and if she dose not have a reason then maybe she dose not like you in that way and you need to move on but make sure she dose not like you before you move on
hope i helped
2007-02-25 06:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk with her and hang out with her when you can.
chances are, she might like you back but she's feeling exactly the way you're feeling. let things lay low for a while and see what happens. good luck.
im me if you wanna find someone to talk to about it.
rae marie xo
2007-02-25 06:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by hello_goodbye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start off with something that a couple can do and friends can do, like going to the movies. if she likes you, she'll ask you to go somewhere else. work from there.
2007-02-25 06:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Your Add Here! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG!!! That sounds exactly like my boyfriend!!! He just finally asked me out and then told me how long he has liked me etc. If you like her sooooooo much.........make the first move!! Ask her to be your girlfriend!!!
Good luck!
2007-02-25 06:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by ☼shine☼ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋