my bf is really nice, but he doesn't show that he likes me. i mean he came to our dance, but he acted like he was just a friend + he wouldn't dance with me. can some1 help?
2007-02-25 06:21:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him or ask your friend to ask him if he likes you if hes says "no" then i think you know what to do. He is nice[that is what you told me] so maybe you guys are ment to be friends and thats it!
2007-02-25 06:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by pony kc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Maybe The Guy Is Shy
Or Maybe He Cant Dance?
You Should Talk To Him, Tell Him That You Love Him And Be Creative To Show Him That You Love Him (if you do)
Is It Neccesary To Break His Heart?
2007-02-25 14:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that your upset and that you want him to be more social with you at parties. A lot of times shy people are really wondering what you want them to do--and then they learn to do it very well. Give it a chance (if you want)--if it doesn't work, try to end with a positive--and go find a guy you can have fun with. If your a really big person then recommend a shy gal (even by name).
2007-02-25 14:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that your partner is not increasing you, helping you grow and improve and become a better person yourself, then perhaps it is time to move on. You and your pattern, together, should equal more than the sum of the parts. If this is not happening, then it may be time to let go and search for another. (He might be feeling the same way, but like you, not expressing the same sentiment).
2007-02-25 14:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried to talk to him? You are certainly justified in feeling the way you do about being shunned in public, but a relationship means that you should be able to communicate your concerns to him, not just expect him to already know how to treat you. If you talk to him and he still does not treat you like you deserve to be treated, then you should consider moving on.
2007-02-25 14:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd sit down and have a talk with him about it. Be honest with him. Tell him that he doesn't show that he likes you. See what kind of response you get. And if he doesn't change or have any interest in changing how you feel, you should probably leave.
Hopefully that helps!
--Vae
2007-02-25 14:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Nevaeh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is shy and needs you to make the first move until he is more comfortable. If you care about him, then, let him know and eventually his shyness will improve. Give it some time before you make your decision.
2007-02-25 14:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt know how much you like him or if you wanted to dance. with those things you have to let him know. just talk to him about it. because he might feel the same as u.
2007-02-25 14:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be super shy or something. Talk to him and see if he is into you. See if you could find more things out about him that he is interested in.
2007-02-25 14:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just cautious. If you like him, try leading him on a bit more.
2007-02-25 14:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by th_779 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋