Okay, so last night me and my boyfriend had the biggest fight we've ever had...I mean, we were both calling each other some pretty bad names but we both said sorry but I still feel really bad even after I apologized. We only talk at night, so would it be weird for me to call him right this minute to tell him how sorry I am?? And what should I say, because I don't want to wait. <3
2007-02-25 06:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you call a guy outside of your "schedule," then he will know its been bothering you all night. If he misses your call, he will probably start thinking "is she calling to break up with me?" Call him, it will show him, how much you've been thinking about it, and how much it bothered you. I think it will be more sincere.....
2007-02-25 06:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go call him now and tell him how your feeling and yes why not apologize again let him know your to put things in the past, but make sure your putting in the past and never bring it back up again.
I guess fighting is a part of relationship but why? When no one feels better at the beginning, middle or the end? So next time you feel a fight coming on take a step back and ask yourself is it wroth hurting him or getting myself hurt? Talking things out is the only way. You both have better things you could be doing then fighting.
I hate to say this but walking away from a fight is the best thing you could do, it's time for all of us to grow up and walk away, cool off and come back and talk it out like adults.
Good luck.
Say sorry first doesn’t mean your weak! Just means you’re willing to put this behind you and move on.
Keep smiling :-0)
2007-02-25 14:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call him! Don't plan out what you're going to say, be spontaneous. Just tell him you love him and want to make sure everythings ok and that you're sorry. Don't make the whole convo about apologizing, talk about normal stuff so it'll make it be ok.
2007-02-25 14:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by adnama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call him.
i think you should explain that you want to settle this like mature people and fix the problem. have a chat with him. understand what his point of view is. understand the situation, learn from it and move on. together, it will make ur relationship stronger.
2007-02-25 14:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wouldn't be weird. Tell him how you feel and that you just wanted to let him know once again that you're sorry. He should appreciate it.
2007-02-25 14:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes your boyfriend why do u only call him at night? Call him wenever you want!
2007-02-25 14:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋