I was wondering if time is running out for me to get a boyfriend and a first kiss. I know I am only 14 but a lot of people experience those kind of firsts in middle school and elementary school. All the people on tv and in the magazines all got their first boyfriend and kiss in middle school or even in elementary school. It seems like I am always worrying about never having a boyfriend. This didn't really worry me this much last year. I do know a lot of people out there that have never had a boyfriend and they're not weird. Is there anyone out there that can relate to me?
2007-02-25 06:09:55 · 10 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think that most girls my age lie about all that stuff to fit in?
2007-02-25 06:14:55 · update #1
Easy there doesn't mean anything at all that you don't have a boyfriend or never had anyway you know a friend of kissed someone for the first time when she was 20.Doesn't mean that because your classemates or your very good friends have someone you should have too.Just remember always take it easy and everything will come the way you want them to come.
2007-02-25 06:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first bf and first kiss in 9th grade, at the age of 15 1/2. The guy was a little dumpy, but I went out with him because he was the first one who asked me out. I was desperate for a bf. I don't regret going out with him, but I learned that I don't need a bf to be happy- the day I finally broke up with him after about 5 months I felt free. He was clingy and didn't want to do anything but kiss me. It's not worth freaking out over- wait till the right guy comes. My friends around me have all had bfs on and off since I did, but I am content having crushes. A year later, I'm happy. I can live without a bf. People around you that have bfs all the time are most likely not going to be with the guys forever. So, to wrap it up, I can relate, I know plenty of other people who are in the same boat. When you don't have a bf, it seems like everyone else does, but really, there are plenty of people who don't. Stick with it and you'll find somebody great!
2007-02-25 14:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You must have LOOOOOOOOOW self-esteem if you think time is running out. Just stay cool and relax. In the end of the day, no one really cares if you have or havent kissed a guy or had a boyfriend. AND NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVERRRR LISTEN TO TV AND MAGAZINES!!!
2007-02-25 14:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you have plenty of time for all of that you said it yourself you are only 14. Don't worry about it because you want your first to be magical and not just with any ol' guy. Hang in here when he time is right someone will light your lips on fire.
2007-02-25 14:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never kissed anyone until I was 15. Don't worry about it. Your time will come.
2007-02-25 14:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 for both! Hang in there, it will happen. I had a friend that was 26, and he was a very handsome man. He thought education was more important than women.
2007-02-25 14:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bigdog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP. Worry about school. Worry about what shoes to wear.
Do not hurry into a path that might lead you into a sinful relationship. Let it happen when it happens.
2007-02-25 14:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, times not running out
you are obviously just waiting for the right guy.
and you have your whole life for that.
dont waste your 1st kiss on someone that you dont care about wait for the right guy.
2007-02-25 14:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
absolutely!'
it ran out the day you turned 8..to late.give up on guys forever..!
2007-02-25 14:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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You're worried about time running out when you're only 14? There is only one answer for you (in Scottish):
Awa an bile yer heid!!!!
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2007-02-25 14:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by CQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋