I am currently 12 years old, and I am dating a 44 year-old. My parents don't know, so i was wondering if this is okay. He makes me feel special, like I have a purpose. Is this wrong?
2007-02-25 06:07:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is not ok and he is not ok. whats going to happen after you mature will he move on to another child. and yes you are a child still. there will ome a day when you have your own children and you will understand. what if it was your daughter? get rid of this guy. this man only cares about what he wants. if he truly cared about you he would know how important it is that you mature right and not with his help. its disturbing to say the least.
2007-02-25 06:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by kattz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from that 44 year-old FAST. Yes it is Wrong. You need your parents not some pervert that makes you feel special. His motives are evil and you are a victim not a date or a girlfriend.
2007-02-25 06:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a purpose alright - to give him pleasure. Of course you know better than to be with someone that old. He's old enough to be your dad. But I do understand that older men get younger girls and make them feel special. Trust me there's only one thing he's after and all he has to do is whisper a few things in your naive ear and he's getting exactly what he wants. It's all a game, an act. Once he's done using you, it's off to the next best thing.
2007-02-25 06:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if you are only 12 you should NOT be dating someone that much older than you even if he does make you feel special. And I'm not trying to be mean.
2007-02-25 06:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents and report him to the police.
You can find boys your own age who will make you feel special when you are a few years older.
Right now, hang out with your friends and enjoy your childhood
2007-02-25 06:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you ask if that's OK are you mental?that guy has major problems if he wants to be with a little girl.you do know if you have sex or anything. that makes him a child predator also know as a sex offender he would go to prison for a long time and he deserves to.stay away from him .you're parents are not going to be happy about this.you should tell them just in case he is a sex offender.nobody wants anything bad to happen to you.ok.
2007-02-25 06:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by india 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's also ILLEGAL. And it's a felony in most states. You need to tell your parents and the police right away. Nothing good can come of this and when your older your going to hate yourself.
2007-02-25 06:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's pretty serious, u should leave him IMMEDIATELY. men, especially older ones, have more experience and knows exactly what to say to get young sweet girls like u. you are still young, don't get yourself scarred and tramatised.
bet ur parents will flipped if they knew.
2007-02-25 06:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not normal, don't talk to him, report him to the police and tell your parents
2007-02-25 06:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by plazndrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not ok! You obviously know its not ok if your asking!
2007-02-25 06:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋