2007-02-25 06:02:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you feel guilty then there is obviously a reason to make you feel that way...what are you chatting about?
it's your choice...it comes down to how you feel about it inside...some girls don't care...some don't feel comfortable doing it...you choose your limitations! I am in a serious, long time relationship...sometimes I go out to a karaoke bar with my sister while my man stays home with the kids....going doesn't bother me...and talking to other men while I'm there doesn't bother me either...but when a guy asks me to dance, I don't, because I feel like that is something that I only want to share with MY man!
if your doing it only when he is gone then why is that? if it's because he don't like it then you need to decide if the relationship and the guy are worth changing yourself for...if you really care about him then it shouldn't bother you to stop chatting online for him! if your chatting to your really close friends or family then he needs to love and care about you enough for it to be ok...but you need to love and care about him enough to not chat to OTHER GUYS...it the relationship is serious enough....You have to compromise...and meet in the middle on the situation...thats what a relationship is all about!
2007-02-25 06:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by RachelLeAnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends, what are you talking to guys about? If you are only chatting which ever type of chat and not actually going through any physical acts,there is no reason to feel guilty. Its understandable that you are alone as he is away. However if you are feeling guilty maybe you should reconsider it. Why not phone him wheneever you aree feeling lonely, text him oreven better if he has access to the internet , why not chat to him online. You don't want to lose the bond you already have. If you keep in contact with him while he's away then it would make it that extra more pecial when he comes back. Good luck XxX
2007-02-25 11:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by *Evie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how far these chats are going,and if you are having contact with these guys off the internet-i.e. text messages,phone calls or emails. If it's a little harmless flirting-no problem,it's a nice ego boost and a bit of a giggle. If it's more than that,and you have given contact details to these guys-well,imagine your boyfriend's reaction if he found out!
2007-02-25 06:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say where he is, or for how long. If you keep your communications with other guys on a level playing field, you will be fine, and no harm done. However be aware. some will want more than just chatting.
2007-02-25 07:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should only feel guilty if your doing something wrong. If he saw what you were chatting about would it be a bad thing?
2007-02-25 06:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by swan 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You always can have fun on the Internet or in the bed as long as your fella do not find out.Even if he finds out,he can not dare say anything.You are the boss in the house.
2007-02-25 08:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what you are talking about ! there is nothing wrong with chatting to any one as long as it is only chatting, just imagin if it was other way round how will you feel (im not saying you have done any thing wrong)
2007-02-25 06:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by krissy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it this way...would you want your guy to chat about the same things you are chatting about with other girls?
2007-02-25 06:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by mlock123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable telling your boyfriend about these conversation then you have nothing to feel guilty about. If you don't mention them, then ask yourself why?
2007-02-25 06:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would tell your boyfriend to his face what you are up to, you are not hiding anything and should not feel guilty. Ask yourself, would you mind at all if he did the same thing? If you would mind, then you can bet he will too.
2007-02-25 06:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Bexs 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋