my bf always gets mad all of a sudden and ignores me for days. most of the time, he wouldnt tell me what's wrong but some of the time i've managed to get him to talk. and in turns out that he got mad because i've bought drinks not only for him but also for other guys; i'm meeting a 35 years old friend for lunch (i'm 20 and definitely not into older men); i'm talking too happily to other guys and etc. i'm really starting to get tired of pacifying him 24/7 and i'm starting to feel like a bf pacifying an unreasonable gf. does he has a problem controlling his emotions or am i just not cut out for a stable r/s?
2007-02-25 05:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me that he's got some issues with insecurity. If this isn't dealt with, then I'm afraid it'll even get worse in the long run. So you've got some decisions to make yourself. Talk with him, if he gets better then good. If it stays the same....then you'll have an idea of what it's like to be married to him...except it'll probably get worse if he doesn't put any effort into understanding. Think of things like this....it's better to be single and lonely, than married and miserable. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-25 06:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming he's also in the 20's, for men and women in that same age would generally mean, he's not equally mature as the female.
That is what your relationship sounds like, Immaturity.
Don't think you are matched to good.
2007-02-25 06:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said he gets mad over trivial matters, little things right? well usually it's not the little things that they're really mad or worried about, little things just set them off. i'm sure he's more scared than mad, there's just a deeper issue that he doesn't know how to explain to you so he ignores you instead. i don't think he has a problem controlling his emotions, he just has a problem communicating them.
2007-02-25 06:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by i_play_6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly in the event that they are on their pc as in sitting infront of the demonstrate screen i'm getting aggravated in a manner via fact i think they dont care approximately me that lots. each so often nonetheless, they might have only left their msn signed in and long previous to do some thing so which you would be able to't get aggravated each and all of the time, its complicated nonetheless I understand what your saying
2016-11-25 22:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by goan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy is too crazy. He sounds immature and jealous.
You can either put up with it forever or find a man, but know..it's nothing you're doing.
Good luck girly.
=]
2007-02-25 06:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes jealous,selfish,and more. when my b/f did that to me i told him what i thought he said go do what you want. he
also saw after a while that I'm just talking to them he got over himself .but a couple weeks later we broke up because of the same thing
2007-02-25 06:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by mybrattybrat3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋