She made the option to stay with her dad when himself and I split. However there has been no hard feelings and she always know she could come to live with me if she chose to. When I met my current husband, he and my daughter never got on but it didnt make much difference as she didn't live with us.
All through our married life though my husband has always called my daughter fit to burn, even though shes never hurt him. The reason is because he has caught her out in a few white lirs. Now hes slagging her off every day and its driving me mad. I don't even see her any more, but hes going on what he hears from other folk. Shes not interfering with us, but hes bringing her into our relationship as he keeps on about how horrid etc she is.
2007-02-25 05:51:36 · 14 answers · asked by The Way 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She also has a baby son, and when I rang the other week to see how she was she told me to mind my own busuness
2007-02-25 05:58:51 · update #1
id be telling him where to go straight away.
he sounds like a bully who is jelous of your daughter and wants to make sure you dont have any relashionship with her at all.
your daughter WILL take it out on you as your allowing it to happen.
i would tell him stop it and make an effort.tell him how much this is upsetting you and be serious.
tell him you love him,but you love your daughter too.
you sound like you could do with a break but this man should really stop this before you lose your daughter and grandchild.
good luck.
2007-02-25 07:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i am kerryanne i am really sorry to tell you but i beleive that her old man has been poisoning her one day get her and you can and explain to her why you broke up with the father and why the reason is for the way she is treating you and what made her make that decission get her close to you again even if it is doing it the hard way, go for a trip some where i am 20 with 2 kids under 3 and i am seperating from my bloke in 2 days and what you are going through is my worst fear but i know my kids will stay with me even beyond their will because i know what the father is like anyway if you want to email me thats fine on allyjoshua@hotmail.com
2007-02-25 20:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by kerryanne l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your Daughter and he sounds jealous and insecure. I brought my children up on my own even my step daughter and all my partners have accepted the family. In fact my son was my best man at my wedding mind you he was only 3 years younger than my wife, so they all got on brilliantly.. Stick with your daughter and get him toaccept the facts or go
2007-02-25 14:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is being a git, tell him to stop slagging of your daughter. Remind him that it's much easier for you to find a new husband than a new daughter!
2007-02-25 14:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get closer to your Daughter,and forget your Husband.He sounds to me like he like to drive a Wedge between you two,he acts like a Jerk,and I think he is jealous.Put hem to the Curb,Blood is thicker then Water.Love your Daughter and try to be her best Friend.
2007-02-25 14:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by karl s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you one thing, I will let no man come between me and my kids. I will never let another man talk bad about my kids. If you don't like my kids then you don't like me. You can chose to stay with a so called man like that but I would definitely kick that sap sucker to the curb.
2007-02-25 13:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Stumped 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw your husband out like yesterday's trash. Never ever allow anyone to bash your daughter.
2007-02-25 14:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-26 05:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER choose a man over your child. I would tell the new hubby ba bye and go rescue my child.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 13:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he is insecure about the fact that u have a child from someone else, perhaps he feels inadequate because you have no children together?
2007-02-25 13:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by mixed up chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋