Me and my ex are trying to work our relationship out but I dont know if she is serious. She lives in Ohio I live in Michigan. So we dont see each other often. And now that we broke up she calls me a lot more then even when we were dating. Then also we had the plan on me going down there in like 2 weeks. But now she really wants me to come down next week. So im confused. PLEASE HELP ME OUT LADIES!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 05:43:14 · 4 answers · asked by Blake B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, this is coming from a guy that thinks that long term relationships are the hight of stupidity, espeically for men. Commitment with no companionship is FOR SUCKERS. Also her rush should alarm you, does she want to make someone jealous? Seriously, you need to go with your gut and dump her for real.
2007-02-25 05:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is playing a game.
If you are broke up, stop answering her calls and take a few days before you reply to a voice mail. Give it a few hours before replying to a text message.
If you make a plan to visit in two weeks, keep to that plan. Tell her that you can't change plans that fast because of the distance between you two. Tell her NO for next week.
I would really reconsider this relationship. See what happens when you visit her in TWO weeks.
Long distance relationships take a lot of work, and a lot of trust. They do work, but BOTH individuals need to put 100% into the relationship. I dated my now-fiance for 1 1/2 years before moving down to live with him (we were 2 1/2 hours apart).
Good luck!
2007-02-25 14:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you cant come that week and she her reaction. She is playing you I think she had something else planned and thats the reason she wants you to come early..Or you may be the rebound guy she may have someone and when things are rocky she can always count on you..Take if from a women she doesnt have your best intentions at heart.
2007-02-25 14:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by SOLIDERGIRL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find someone closer to home that you can see more often there millions of single girls out there, take my advice get afew on the go then if one doesnt work out youve got someone to fall back on jus dont go out wiv any of them coz then if they find out about each other they cant say anything coz your single.
2007-02-25 14:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by bigsteve 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋