it may be funny but it is true.i love the woman most. now i slowly became affectionate to her family, especially to her husband who also loves her. i know that the lady whom i love has a strong fa,ily bonding and can not be hapy without her husband being happy. perhaps this made me attracted to her husband, who otherwise also a man to be respected.she also some how wants to make both of us happy. she loves me but she also want to make her husband happy.i have a respect to the man even i love him a lot.though i have no bad relationship with the lady, others may not accept that.i wish to be loved by the husband of my lover.though the man does not dislike me he also does not like me. please help
2007-02-25 05:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
threesome?
2007-02-25 05:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read this several times and I don't know your gender. I assumed you are a women. This seemed to work for me, probably because of my male bias. I think you are in over your head and you need to think about the consequence of your discovery. What happens if the light shines on everything? Are people going to be hurt? Have some empathy now that you care for the whole group of people you must also feel their pain.
2007-02-25 13:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk alot about family. Maybe what you are really attracted to is close familial ties.
At any rate, it would be best for you to extricate yourself from this situation. You are the only one in this that stands to lose something.
You deserve to be in a loving committed relationship of your own, not someone else's.
2007-02-25 13:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Pixie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is funny. You need some serious help. It is not a good thing to have a lover that is already with someone else.
You should let them both go before someone gets hurt and find your own mate.
2007-02-25 13:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez.... If having a married women as your lover aint weird and complicated enough, you're in love with her spouse.. dude, you got to wake up and get some other woman and stay away from their happy family...
2007-02-25 13:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by ramzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off your computer, get out the Yellow pages. You need a professional.
2007-02-25 13:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kenny Ray 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so i dont like get it....you like both of them??? the man and the woman??? thats just messed up dude maybe you should get some help. and especially if shes actually ok with this??? wow
2007-02-25 13:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 confusing for me leave the married 1 alone.
2007-02-25 13:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?? Soap opera script in the making?
2007-02-25 13:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by SmartyPants 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you get your phonebook out there are yellow pages in them, look under therapist,call one
2007-02-25 13:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by gone fishing! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE THE PEOPLE ALONE! YOU GONNA DESTROY THEIR LIFE! you actually need to get a life urself!
2007-02-25 13:51:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋