is it madness or am i just a desperate loser?
2007-02-25 05:38:54 · 17 answers · asked by SUZANNE R 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people can be so different in person u may have fallen for this guy
(we can 't help who we like or fall for)
just be aware the guy may not be what you thought ,and that's not his fault so be aware of his feelings .
it's great you can meet people on line now, it's 2007
embrace that.
2007-02-25 05:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by johnc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not going to say that you a loser but I will share a true story with you and this may open your eyes to some things. I had a friend who met this guy online. He moved from another state to be with her. He lived with her in her mom's house for about a month. He then told her he had to go out-of-state to care for his sick mother. He said he would be gone about three weeks. She never heard from him since and after he left she found out she was pregnant. He never once looked back and does not even know what his daughter looks like. I am not saying that online love is not possible but just be very careful. I hope things work out for you.
2007-02-25 05:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by infinidad_1997 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havee you even met this guy? Lovee is a very strong word. It could be that you feel a strong attraction this person but you should take it slow. If you haven't met him, be aware that some guys lie on the internet and could not be who they say they are, but thats not in every case. How long have you ben talking to this guy? If its only been a matter of weeks it surely couldn't be love. Call it what you want but make sure you know how it feels deep in your heart. If it feels like love then maybe it is. Good Luck XxX
2007-02-25 11:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by *Evie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a desperate loser. It is the norm these days for people to meet online and many of them do fall in love. Just be careful when meeting for the first time, if you haven't already.
2007-02-25 05:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by starsonmymind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met a guy on line and fell on love. We are now engaged and I dont feel like a loser. Enjoy
2007-02-25 05:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm leaning toward desperate loser, but I think there's a little madness mixed in too.
2007-02-25 05:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met a guy online too and weve been together for over a year.were very in love.and now planning for a future together.i like the idea of internet dating.as long as the person is genuinely who they say they are its not a problem. beats meeting someone in a pub or club when you dont know a thing about them.best of luck! hope it all works out for you both :)
2007-02-25 05:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by pc confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's neither, ur like I was last summer, I met someone, and the same thing happened to me. It just didn't occur to me sooner that he was one of those cyber creeps who go after teenager girls. I would say that it's not entirely safe to fall in love on the internet, who knows, he may not be who he says he is. I advise u to be very, very careful. Don't get urself in too deep. And pay close attention to what he asks u.
2007-02-25 05:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation,and its driving me bonkers! Am having all the same feelings about this man as I would if he was here with me now.The other people who have answered this question seem to think overall that it could possibly work and have boosted my spirits somewhat..I want it to work,but can`t get my head round "falling in love with someone I`ve never met",..I truly hope it works for you,goodluck and be happy!
2007-02-25 06:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by learning the lesson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you met him?im not saying its not possible but, i personally find it very hard to believe you can actually fall in love without experiencing the looks, the glances, the first touches, kisses etc!i won't knock it coz ive not tried it but i just dont think its possible sorry. xx
2007-02-25 05:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by mixed up chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋