she asked me out 4 days ago but she dosent talk to me much, it feels like she is afraid of me but i know she likes me alot. what should i do?
2007-02-25 05:31:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might have a temper or she might have seen you with other poeple and thought you might tell her something she doesn't want to hear.
Why do you say "She asked me out" ? / Why is she asking you out, why YOU don't ask her out???? Something is not clicking...I think there might be details you are leaving out....
2007-03-04 01:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a shy person myself, it helps a lot when guys open up to me about things first. You don't have to tell her your life story, but I know that I feel comfortable around guys that can trust me, and that lets me know that I can trust them. I think she needs to get to know you a little more. Spend some more one on one time with her. Since you haven't been dating very long, this is normal, but if this awkwardness lingers, this could be a problem. Just give it some thought. Try doing things together that she's comfortable with or that you both like to do.
2007-02-25 13:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her why. Treat her very nice. Open the door for her, tell her she looks nice, tell her you really like her a lot but don't you talk too much. Smile and enjoy the quiet companionship.
2007-02-25 13:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kenny Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both young, right? She probably doesn't know how to act when dating someone. I think you two need to go out and have dinner and just chat. Heck, start hanging out and talking anyway! She will loosen up.
2007-02-25 13:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her tell her you only want to help her and she might open up to you
2007-02-25 13:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her find out what's wrong? or snail mail her a letter good luck
2007-02-25 13:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comfort her!! Talk to her, express your feelings, and most importantly make her trust you and feel secure. It's all about trust.
2007-02-25 13:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Martin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey may b she is trying to understand u .u know sensable people behave in the same way
2007-02-25 13:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by mano punjabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im like that too
just talk to her and let her kno that your there for her and talk to her about you and get her presents and lether kno that you like her back bc maybe she thinks you dont like her
2007-02-25 13:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Iâ?¥u and Uâ?¥me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space. then talk to her and ask why she is shy around u.
maybe she is embaressed or worried she'll embaress you or herself?
2007-02-25 13:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by sweetcherrypie_♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋