i still wonder what my ex is doing. why is this? when he treated me so bad. we did have some good times and he did buy me some nice things but there were times he made me feel so bad i could have just died. he use ti lie and gawk at other women in front of me, he was always at a party or club, he never showed genuine compassion for me . so why am i still wondering what he is doing and why in the hell do i wish he would call me. what is my problem? why would i still care for a guy that could care less if i was in his life or not? im glad hes gone but at the same time i wish he had done me right. plz help me with some ideas to stop this toxic way of thinking.
2007-02-25 05:16:57 · 13 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all it takes time to heal a broken heart...trust me, no matter how bad or good the relationship was it still hurts when it ends. Of course you find yourself thinking of him often, because not too long ago you were probably planning your future with this guy. I suggest you take time and pamper yourself and make yourself feel better better. You have got to learn to love yourself before you can move on!! It's a tough road to travel on I have been there and done that!! Don't rush yourself, let your heart mend before getting into another relationship....Good luck
2007-02-25 05:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Floridapurrfection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOS i used to practice. After many years of wasted time thinking and thinking, i was doing worse at job other attempted relationships etc etc. You should try and put it out of your mind. Easy to say. But it must be obvious how much you waste good time that you could be moving ahead and accomplishing something. It is an anchor that you need to do what ever necessary for you to cut it loose and get busy. Work on career, invest, save money, get a promotion, work. Don't get into the "on the rebound" b.s. thing. More waste of time. You don't need anyone but yourself for now. Work and accomplish something to make yourself proud. and filter out those old thoughts. change phone numbers, burn photos, letters, join a support group etc. etc. No drugs or booze or you are certain to lose. LOTS of luck.
2007-02-25 13:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your self-esteem is low if you are missing someone who treated you badly. Forget about the good times, forget him. There are guys out there that dont gawk at women in your presence, and that will treat you right. You should probably try dating a little and you will see that there is no reason to miss a jerk like this.
2007-02-25 13:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should get over that bloke, and find yourself a man who will treat you with the love and respect you so surely deserve. You're just wasting time with your mind on your ex. Forget him and let him go. That's all I can suggest you do, Good Luck.
2007-02-25 13:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit sometimes I envy guys that can get away with treating their women like dirt because I'm just a nice guy who always finishes last!
2007-02-25 13:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Toddacanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get busy at finding a good man who will treat you right, and make you forget the hurt your ex caused you.
2007-02-25 13:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Hotstuf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i had the exact situation happen to me.. he treated me sooo bad but i still wish he would call me and i wondered what he was doing. well its normal even though he treated you bad you still like him and its gonna take a while to get over him just try your hardest.. it took me about 3 months to totally get over my ex and i still kinda have feelings for him. and we had an on and off relationship and i would keep on taking him back but im not anymore.... You just need to try to meet new guys but dont worry i think just about everyone thinks about their ex and what they are doing at one point
2007-02-25 13:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by pretty_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be your first. if not, it seems you need more sh*t from him to move on with your life. Why not hook up with him again and let him treat you like dirt again, maybe that'll give you enough sh*t to let him go. Nice things don't buy love. Sounds like an a*s to me, my first used to treat me the same. But I finally had enough crap from him to leave.
2007-02-25 13:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what is ur religion but the only solution for this problem is to search help from ur GOD and u will find peace and contentment and u will see how foolish u will take all this matter
2007-02-25 13:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by mano punjabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being alone is the reason, find a guy to replace these thoughts!
2007-02-25 13:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋