I was going to go to the movies with 2 of my friends that are girls. They both stood my up. So I called up this girl and ask her to go to the movies. I bought her a ticket to the movie and me one too. we walked into the movies and her boyfriend was sitting there with his friends and she told me that was her boyfriend. I had planned to like put my arm around her or hold her hand or pull somthing like that on her but when she told me that her boyfriend was here I changed my mind beacuase he was hanging out with really big guys. So his friends came up to were me and her were siting and asking me lots of qeustions like why was I here with her. I went down to her boyfriend and told him we were just friends and i didnt want any trouble and i told him to go up and sit by her. So a went up with him and left 5 minutes later and he friends had already left went to talk to them and explain what was going on. his bro works there and told me he respects me should I feel bad .....i kinda like her
2007-02-25 05:01:49 · 21 answers · asked by Brandon B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not feel bad if you did not know that she had a boyfriend before you went. Plus you did the right thing of not holding her hand or anything of that nature once you found out that she did have a man. There is not need to feel bad about having a friend who is female anytime. As long as you show respect for her relationship you should be fine.
2007-02-25 05:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shawna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong at all, not to worry, if he is worried then you have nothing to worry about, he is the one who should be worried, which means he feels your a threat and he may lose his girlfriend to you, which I think you would not mind.
Keep being friends with her, she will eventually come around and like you and even may want to date you, keep asking her to go places not like they are married or anything.
2007-02-25 05:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know she had a boyfriend, even if you didn't she did. Nothing happened and she should be the one embarrased not you, you did nothing wrong. If you keep going out with her then you might fell bad but nothing happened so don't worry about it.
2007-02-25 05:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should feel bad for liking a "taken" girl. AND, for taking her to the movies without letting her bf know. that's bad!
2007-02-25 05:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your fault or your problem. Though it was nice of you to try to play it down to save the girl you were with some potential problems
2007-02-25 05:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that she had a boyfriend when you asked her out? If so, you certainly should feel bad. However, if you honestly didn't know that she was dating someone, then you shouldn't beat yourself up about it.
2007-02-25 05:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Chicken Little 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that her boyfriend is too protective, and that she should dump him for you. Then hire yourself a body guard for when he realizes what's going on and tries to attack you. Good luck!
2007-02-25 05:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing you have nothing to feel bad about
2007-02-25 05:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you?, she should've told her boyfriend she was going with you to the movies, it's her own fault if he's mad, you have nothing to do with it.
2007-02-25 05:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by dominicandyme22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't force her to do anything, so you don't have to feel bad.
I think you handled the situation ok, but don't be scared of anyone even if they are bigger than you.
2007-02-25 05:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by pas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋