What is my problem?

Question

I find myself hating everyone latley, even the smallest things are getting on my nerves, the way they talk, the why the act everything. These are all friends of mine and I don't know what to do about it. What is my problem?

Could be stress, but I live and work with these people and I'm in a country I don't know so it makes it hard to get away from them.

Answer 1

Get an appointment with a Dianetics Auditor. Dianetics addresses all areas of life; you can have a talk with him/her and find out if he/she can help you.
They are very professional and if it is a clinical condition he'll let you know.
They are the specialists for the Mental problems. Not the brain cases. The mental ones.

They can help you to get rid of ANY disturbance. He could also give you a 'nerve assist', to help you to calm down or even to relief any stressed nerves so the nervous flux could happen in the proper way. An Auditor is a highly trained person who listens and who understands whatever you want to say, the way you would say it withut feeling stressed about it. They are really GOOD.

Stay away from drugs, street or psychiatric. They woun't solve the problem.
Stay away from people who evaluate you. You are not a food, a car, a drink to say that you are like this r that you have this. You HAVE nothing of a 'categorized list'. You are a Spiritual Being who encountered some adversities and needs help, not qualification in the sense of disease or illness.

Answer 2

Stagnate water, smells horrible, and never moves.Something is like that in your life. If your never moving, you smell horrible. (Not you, personally, I mean) Something has to be moved into that water, to stir things up. Do something different. Something no-one else you know likes, or actively participates in. Even if it's not really your thing, you can go from there, to finding your own time or whatever. You live and work with them. Sounds like it could be, in some ways, like a marriage. I live with a man(4 years) and his co-workers are more like wife's to him than I am, (the main wifely duty, is all mine, lol!) meaning he talks to them, tries to impress them, his world is work, and I'm his cake at the end of the night. Again, the answer is do something different. If you can, move jobs, or area's, in the place you work, save money, move out. If you have a job,you can get a crummy place,and feel much better. There are other alternatives, but Herbal Products( three letter word) or Xanax will only make you not care, not change. Is that any help?

Answer 3

You dould be experiencing anxiety since you said you are working out of country, or may not be a happy with your job their as you were elsewhere. Maybe the people around you are trying too hard to establish their relationship with you on both a professional and personal level and it is just more than you can handle. Find an outlet outside of work that would help you alleviate some tension and anxiety! Could help... just a thought!

Answer 4

it does sound like you are stressed and maybe a little depressed do go to your doctor and discuss this as they might be able to give you tablets or advise alternative therapies for this problem.
also try a relaxing bath and breathing techniques to help and try and meet other people around the area by joining groups etc i do hope you get this sorted and it doesn't spiral out of your control as depression can be a scary and lonely world for you.

Answer 5

You've got a bad case of stress and need to find a way to chill out, I've been down the same road snapping and snarling at people who don't deserve it , thankfully I've managed to learn how i can control it to an extent but still not 100% yet ,take time out for yourself and if you can manage it get away somewhere and relax.

Answer 6

I feel like this sometimes especially with my family. It may help you to write down how you feel, this has worked down for me its a good way to express how your feeling. I was often jealous over the smallest thing but I always try and think of good times I have had with my friends. Have some time to your self and think about incidents that have have happened and the reasons these have upset you. Let your emotions out.
Hope this helps x

Answer 7

hi hope you dont like me too, but the problem is not a such a serious. it is quit common with all. but with you, the problem is you are taking it to the heart. and you love your friends so much,and you expect them to be god with you and talk to you but it doesnt go that way. but you should try to be fexeble to all circumstances and you will be fine. and dont be too much centimaental,and attached to the person.this settles the matter. more then seek the Lord all mighty God through Jesus and you will find soltion to all your mental stress and relational and rational problems.

Answer 8

I think you may have another problem that made you stress. Try to find it and then think to solve it nicely. Never ever be nervous. Every thing could be easy if you give it time.

Answer 9

do something that you really enjoy or something that relaxes you. Take a day for just "you". surround yourself in an environment you feel calm in, listening to music that soothes you, a favorite movie, or simply with activities that you really enjoy. Or maybe even take the time to write down what has been bothering you. It could be a letter that you simply crumble up and throw away...but it might be good just to jot your feelings down and vent.

it just seems like you need to relax. I think we all get agitated from time to time. just take some time for yourself to get away and hopefully things will improve.

Answer 10

I think it sounds like frustration. You may be doing something that you don't really want to do, but you haven't realised it yet - a natural reaction is to blame everyone else. Take time to ponder over your situation and consider alternatives.