between my fiance and my self we have 4 kids.i was thinking about having the oldest daughter walk him down the aisle.then sending the two younger children down(flower girl &ring bearer),then having his oldest son walk me down te aisle.Is this to weird or have you been to other wedding similar to this
2007-02-25 05:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by marines_sweetie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I don't think that is weird at all. Also since you all have children from previous marriages it is good to have them be invovled. Afterall, you all come as package deals now. I think it is great to have to kids be part of the ceremony.
Best of luck!
2007-02-25 05:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wierd at all. This is your wedding - you do what feels right. I think it is a wonderful way to include your children in the ceremony. I haven't been to one quite like yours, but I have attended a wedding where the brides daughter from a previous marriage was the flower girl and the grooms daughter was a bridesmaid. I have also attended a wedding where the bride's daughter was a maid of honor and her son walked her down the aisle. Enjoy your day and congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I am sure it will be a beautiful occasion.
2007-02-25 15:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Marijane K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been to a wedding like this before, but I think your idea is really cool. You two would make a very strong and loving statement to everyone by having each other's kids walking the other partner down the aisle. Congrats!
2007-02-25 13:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by erinlovestv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is sweet! You should include your family in the ceremony, since they are also "marrying", too.
My husband and I had my youngest nephew walk our 14 month old daughter down the aisle before the bridal party, to include her in the ceremony. I am extremely close with my two nephews (10 and 14). The older nephew was in as one of the groomsmen. Not as involved as yours, but I think it is very appropriate.
2007-02-25 13:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do this, you'll not really be married?
Are you kidding me??? It's YOUR wedding. Do what you want. At my wedding we had our best friend officiate. Afterwards guests told us it was the best wedding they'd ever seen because it was so personal.
Have a great time and don't let any stuffy old traditions get in the way.
2007-02-25 13:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is different, and I have never seen anything like it...but every wedding is different. It doesnt really seem like there is any such thing as a traditional wedding any more.
I wouldnt do it because it would be too weird for me...but its not my wedding, its yours. If it isnt too weird for you, and if its what you really want to do, do it! People might say "oh thats weird", but thats about it...its not a huge deal.
2007-02-25 13:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's a great way to incorporate all the children into the wedding. It will make them feel like they were a big part of your special day.
2007-02-25 13:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by FlyChicc420 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not the norm but what you want is what you should do. i haven't been to a wedding like that but i have been and done my wedding with the kids as best men and maids of honor ext... but to walk him or you down is a little weird for its putting the kids in the middle of something if they have other parents. they may be OK with the wedding but to hand you off to someone new might be to much for them.. as for if they are all yours then that's another thing..go for it i think it would be neat to see the kids hand you off to their father and visa versa. but always remember this its your wedding/ your day/ your life do what will make you happy not what will make other happy because in the end its down to you and him, and your kids. plus you cant always please everyone. good luck god bless have a great wonderful day...
2007-02-25 13:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No thats not weird... My bestfriend has 3 kids and dont have the finaces either... she having the wedding in her backyard and me and the other brides maid baught our own dresses...
2007-02-25 13:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds great. everyone feels as though the'yre part of the process that way. i think it's wonderful that you're involving the kids. it's hard to blend a family. this way it's like they're all getting married. best wishes on your marraige.
2007-02-25 13:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋