I told these two guys that i fancied them, and i think it was a massive mistake, and want to go back to playing hard to get...what can i do to make them think "does she not fancy us anymore?" ?
2007-02-25 05:01:13 · 22 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Calm down Kia you only told them that you fancied them, it's not like you've made love to the both of them. Now since you've only told them with words you can easily keep them guessing by showing them conflicting behavior. For instance you've told them you like them but that doesn't mean that you have to act like you do. Speak to them and then ignore them afterwards every chance you get. That way you will keep them guessing everytime.
2007-02-25 05:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by veronica r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite a contradiction, you told not ONE but 2 -start by having some respect for yourself in the first instance or you will get back what you give out - NOT A LOT
If you want to be pursued try saying little and giving even less and that will make them want to chase, if they do not pursue you then they were not worth your time.
2007-02-25 13:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by JAYFIRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont return any of their phone calls 4 a week and when they talk act like your not interested at all. But then after a week start flirting a little but not too much.
2007-02-25 13:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get then! But, I think the best thing to do is to tell them the truth! Good luck!
2007-02-25 13:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lesshiia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or you could flirt with one of them whilst being cold to the other. Then when mr a realises he DEFINATLY IN and mr b thinks he's LOST OUT, switch and see who tries the hardest.
Or you could engineer some kind of threesome if your into that sort of thing.
2007-02-25 13:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Girugamesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt play hard to get anymore coz u going to lose both of them very easy if some girl was playing with me i would wash my hands of her or play with her then dump her in a harsh way dont play game aint worth it
2007-02-25 16:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you told "guys" you fancy them if it was just one person that would be fine but more!!! your mad playing with fire, keep your distance till it cools down.
2007-02-25 14:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Wim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mad woman. its fine playing hard to get but at some point you have to show that you like them cos if you dont they wont bother asking you out. would you ask someone out if they led you to believe that they wasnt interested? no you wouldnt. you;ve told them and now you have to leave it at that or they'll just think your playing games.
2007-02-25 13:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you have met the man of your dreams over the weekend. tell them all about this man how great and kind and generous he is and that you are going out with him next weekend tell them that he is the most handsome man you have ever seen, tell them he is not a bit like them tell them afew of there bad points and that your glad you never ended up with them ha ha it sounds good doesn't it. they will soon be gutted. good luck
2007-02-25 13:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by lou. c. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with someone different infront of them to make em jelous lol. ..really if you feel you need someone then you need someone ...true happyness is found within yourself ...you be happy on your own til you get married but if you want to have sex eventually then go for it . ..then again why waste your time n not live you life fast n get where you wanna get !!! right ??
2007-02-25 13:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋