me and bf are doing horrible this is our second time together and i really want it to work but hes alaways busy with basketball.i do like him alot but hes also kind of a flirt
wat should i do????
2007-02-25 04:52:36 · 21 answers · asked by DoMiNiCaN pRiNcEsS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this answer is from my daughter:
i think that if he treats you fine then you could find a way to work it out....if he's a flirt and doesn't pay any attention to u then there are other fish in the sea!!!! don't stay stuck on one guy, and don't let his basketball schedule ruin ur relationship.....
this is my answer:
I say learn to play b-ball! If the guy isnt abusive give him some slack! Remember flirting is only window shopping as long as thats as far as it goes!!!
2007-02-25 05:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by boxpro86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your BF you don't want to hurt his feelings, because if you break up with up with him you want to still be friends. I would go to his basketball games and cheer him on that way you can also hang-out. Just make sure he makes time for you on the weekend after the game. If a cheer leader starts to flirt with him and hes flirting back, talk to the girl and lay down the law.
Good Luck!!
2007-02-25 13:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by laughoutloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don t know how old are u, at first apologize because of my english i m from abroad. my bf is to so kind of a flirt, but all the time i know that he love me so thar s nothing to think about. but u wrote that he is so busy to. at first try to tell him u want to be with him much more. i dont know how long u are together but u have to know that it never will be better it could be just worst so it s just up to u...
2007-02-25 13:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by barbora f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he treats you right and you feel like he loves you then stay with him. all guys are flirts and theres no such thing as a perfect relationship. there will always be some type of problem. be greatful that yours is only him being busy with basketball.
2007-02-25 12:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by braineak123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can clearly see, you're not happy with him.
Young people tend to call "talking to anyone" flirting...
I'm assuming that's the case?
Throw him away and maybe the next time you
see him, will be on tv.. playing pro.
2007-02-25 13:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know your not right for each other or you wouldnt be asking this question, stop being so available lads want what they cant have, let thim ring you when he does say your busy. let him play his gay basketball if he liked you enough there would be time for both. DONT BE A DOOR MAT!
2007-02-25 13:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by bigsteve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should break up with him. There's know need for you to be with a man that doesn't have time for you. Trying to make things work probably won't work.
2007-02-25 12:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by lilbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like deep down you still love him, try talking to him and telling him how you feel, if things still dont work out...DUMP HIM
2007-02-25 12:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby that requires time equal to that of basketball.
2007-02-25 12:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right and what will make you happy but I would dump him
2007-02-25 12:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋