At the end of last year a guy gave me a not reading "over the course of this year i have fallen for you" He is known for dating a lot of girls, so even tho i liked him i told him that i only wanted to be friends. But since then, we have talked long into the night about "us" and i told him that i do really like him. He started dating another girl tho, and so i got really mad and started yelling at him about how he just strung me along and never really cared, but then he said that it was just because he knew i would never let him get close enough to me. I still really like him, and him and his girlfriend just recently broke up... what should i do? Also, we often have these long talks that get really emotional, but i feel like i always bring the subject up, so now i am afraid to talk about my feelings in worry that he is getting annoyed... what should i do? Please answer both of my questions!
2007-02-25 04:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by asksaphron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should stay the heck away from him dear, he sounds like a user! Some guys will be sticky sweet just to try to get you in bed with them. Had a boyfriend that sounded like him once. He found out that I wasn't like that and dumped me for someone who was. The answer to both questions is, run like hell!
2007-02-25 04:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by karenhar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) If you really like him, go for it!
2) Try to steer your talks away from things which make you emotional. Talk about his likes and dislikes.
I rate a potential girl friend by Looks, Intelligence, and compatibility. Not necessarily in that order.
2007-02-25 12:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Contented 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, get over it and go for him!
if it affects your relationship anyway, then maybe you should just say 'hey this is going on long enough....lets give it a shot! My hubby dated more women than you can imagine. Hasn't strayed in 7 yrs of marriage!
2007-02-25 12:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you be his next girlfriend, give him a chance since you like him. You should be able to share your feelings with him if he is your boyfriend. If he does something you don't like, drop him like a bad habit...So go ahead and take a chance on this one...Good Luck ;)
2007-02-25 12:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by The TrutH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a player. Your smart to stay away or soon you will be hurting a lot worse than you are now.
2007-02-25 12:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey he's a player from h*ell. Start avoiding him and play hard to get. Then he'll show his true colors.
2007-02-25 12:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ever hear the song 'bag lady' by erykah badu?
... bag lady, you gon hurt your back, carrying all them bags like that...
forget about what happened in the past, if you really like him, that's all that matters
2007-02-25 12:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Antoine J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try it again.Don't let your Guard down.
2007-02-25 12:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋