this guy and I met last Monday through friends, and ever since last monday everything has been SO smooth and amazing. I never felt anything was rushed at any moment, and everything just happened so naturally. He asked me out yesterday but I still personally think that it is WAY too soon to start a relationship after just been dating for almost 2 weeks. However, we already act like we are in a relationship, and we both know that our feelings for each other will just get stronger. I really don't know what to do because I don't like to move things fast, but this time I feel differently than all the other times. I desperately need advices to what to do!! should I agree to start this relationship? or should I wait longer? how much longer? until what point?
2007-02-25 04:44:13 · 10 answers · asked by <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why wait? When it's right, you know it. Never hesitate, life is too short. Have fun every day!
2007-02-25 04:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by trailsend1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if you want to take a chance on this.. thats totally fine. If things seem like they are going so smooth and everything is going right. Something is likely to happen that you may not approve of, but keeping a positive attitude and not assuming the worse is so important! Because its very easy to do, when you don't know them as well as you would like to. Ive seen and had this happen many times. Learn from my mistakes! Just keep on getting to know each other and see where it takes you :-) you have nothing to lose..
2007-02-25 12:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Royce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you waiting? afraid the relationship will move to fast?
You have to set boundries. You can be intimate with him without sex. But if your that into the guy then maybe their shouldnt be any boundries. its you though that needs to decide this.
I just gotta say why wait for waitings sake? is there some kind of official dating guide waiting period? no. every relationship is different experience all that you can experience.. Just be ready for heartbreak because youll have your share of that too, but its all a factor of life. Your supposed to experience it all. That is what a healthy relationship is
2007-02-25 12:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one to say if it is too soon!if you feel it is too soon tell him!if he stays then you know if he walks away it wasn't worth it at all!take it at your speed,but if he truly is a good thing you don't want to lose him either!if it's meant to be it will work it's self out!don't stress it that will put a damper on things and you may regret it!enjoy it while it lassts weather it's 2 weeks or 20 years from now that you 2 are togrther make the most out of it if you rreally like him good luck!
2007-02-25 12:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by pgiggles34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything is so smooth, what's the problem? You know you are good together, so stop wasting time, and just get together. Do what makes you happy, and get the relationship started!
2007-02-25 12:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by mariapie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....way way way too soon. It takes several months for the egos to separate for the real people underneath the fascade start to emerge.
2007-02-25 12:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make relationship after u marry him.
2007-02-25 12:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by AVANISH JI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart nd if everything feels right then nothing to soon
2007-02-25 12:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not too soon
2007-02-25 12:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-02-25 12:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by GrnEyedGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋