What are some safe, healthy, and clean ways to enjoy sex?

Question

I was not very happy with the response to this question. But, I do appreciate at least some efforts being made to respond. I have thought that this type of issue could be considered in three modes.

For instance:

The mode of goodness also known as Sattva:

In the mode of goodness the intelligent being ideally does not engage in sex outside of sacred marriage. The extreme ideal in this mode is that there is sex only for procreation of wonderful child. The couple experiences satisfaction and happiness by keeping with this standard. They attempt to improve their happiness and satisfaction with sex in this mode by consulting advanced souls in person or through the teachings of advanced souls.

The mode of passion also known as Rajas:

This mode is in the middle and so intelligent beings may sometimes lean towards the lower mode of Tamas or ignorance, and sometimes this couple leans towards Sattva. So they try to keep sex within sacred marriage, but sometimes there may be some deviation. If there is an deviation it is on a higher more sophisticated level. The happiness and satisfaction is on a lower level. They may experience the thrill of "conquest". That is the try to conquer the desired mate in different ways. The may consult so many sources of education to achieve greater satisfaction and happiness. These sources of education may be either material or spiritual. They may struggle to keep the proper perspective in regards to the value of the spiritual over the material.

The mode of ignorance also known as Tamas:

In this mode there is free sex. The only restriction are those that happen according to nature's way of imposing karmic reaction when it is good and ready. In this mode intelligent beings may vary in their level of ignorance. Some may be more towards barbarism and some may be more adhering in the direction of the higher modes. Knowledge on improving the happiness and satisfaction derived from sex is gained on the basis of whim. They are not sure who is the correct authority. If they are lucky to get an authority with information that helps to progress to higher modes then they may make some advancement to that higher level of happiness and satisfaction.

To put all this in simpler terms, the more love we can generate in a relationship the more happiness and satisfaction we will get from sex.

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Answer 1

really know & care about the person you are having sex with & of course USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

with protection

Answer 3

slowly and pationetly

Answer 4

alone.