He was the most sweet caring, romantic and loving guy I had in my life ....I admitted to him I used to be a player but with him its different. We only had sex about 8 times, each time was amazing.
But than i started acting quiete bad with him... First i told him I want to split up because I feel i like him too much and its ruining my concentration on studies. Than I told him that in fact i don't want to split up with him because I am madly in love...
On Tuesday we went out to the party together and I got drunk and was a bit impolite with him... I chatted with other guys a lot in the club and after we had sex in his place i left saying I will go back to the club! We stoped seing each other and he doesn't contact me but we had one 30 min phone conversation and he said things are going very bad and he doesn't understand me, i act irrational, have too many mood swings.
We havent' spoken for 2 days. Does it mean its over? And if yes, shall i go out with other people?
2007-02-25 04:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u blew it when u said u were going back to the club
2007-02-25 04:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not surprised at all that this poor guy is confused with your actions. I mean do you care for him and do you like him and do you want to be with him? These are things you need to make clear in your mind! You seem to be playing with him and his feelings and I am pretty sure he feels used. I would if I were him. I mean you break up with him, you flirt with others, you go back to a club after having sex with him.. what do you think he must be thinking? You act poorly with him. If you want him back, send him an email, call him or send him a letter and talk to him, explain to him that you acted very badly towards him, and tell him you would like to change. But I wonder if he can ever trust you because I could not.
2007-02-25 04:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by violet b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to call him and see is it over. Tell him why you been acting like you have. If hes avoiding you phone calls or avoiding you thn most likely its over. If it is over I think you should wait a little while befor you jump back into the dating fields
2007-02-25 04:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by tabby-bonay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its abit to soon to be thinking about going out with other people babe, you said you was in love with him and youve only been split up for a couple of days so i think you just need time on your own to sort out what you really want in life. you have said yourself that you treated him bad so maybe deepdown you didint love him cos if you did i dont think you would have treated him like that and maybe that was your way of getting rid of him. sometimes we push people away when our heart isnt really in it.
2007-02-25 05:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by materialgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was just Time Pass Affair and the Guy was Just experiencing SEX with you, As u have done it with him at several times he has been quenched with you and as he is getting other option he is going with other girls leaving u.
So, it is over.....
But, AVOID these things and be PRACTICAL
MARRY and ENJOY UR LIFE.
2007-02-25 04:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by AVANISH JI 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave the sex scene alone hun. if you are actually worried about your studies just put the body to rest and put the mind to work. leave guys alone. be you, not what they want you to be. once a cheater always a cheater, so stop now befor you make it worse. quite while ur ahead hun!
-Hope it helped!
2007-02-25 04:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by sarah t 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is. Date other guys. But, it wasn't very nice you did it with another guy and not him.
2007-02-25 05:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lesshiia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its over hun.
you have confused him too much and scared him away.
move on and date others.
2007-02-25 04:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its well and truly over but as for you dating others...i don'tthink you're up to it.
2007-02-25 06:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant split it simply.start quickly again
2007-02-25 04:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋