2007-02-25 04:07:13 · 12 answers · asked by MissStrider 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
peopl,e try to be someone else because they want to fit in but how they are now doesnt allow them to so they act like someone their not and it is so not cool because you shouldnt have to be someone else to fit in....
2007-02-25 04:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by ayyyyyyyyyyyyy it's amy<3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun, it sounds like you are hurting because someone is quote unquote "Being fake."
Reember when people pretend to besomething their aren't it may hurt you but really it is because they are not as secure in who they are as you may want them to be.
It is frustrating when people are different around different people, it is probbally a result of embarrassment, don't take it personally. You are a person who is comfortable with who they are and how they feel which is more than some others can say.
Remember to let them work through their problems on their own, by trying to force them to move faster you will only frustrate yourself. For a self-actualized person like yourself letting go and moving on should be no problem.
2007-02-25 04:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by mesacrasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they try to be someone who they believe is perfect, or having a perfect life. I myself have tried it. My life fell apart after I was expelled from high school, my friends abandoned me, and I got put in jail. But, yeah, they try to be someone they want to be. Someone they look up to.
2007-02-25 04:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by boyfriend_love_jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They've never discovered their own identity. Low self-esteem. Need their cofidence built up. They may also have had traumatic things happen to them so that they have no self-worth.
2007-02-25 04:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they do not like you they are and they like person they are trying to become.
2007-02-25 04:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by samantha h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because being a mimic is so much easier than being an original.
2007-02-25 04:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by r~@~w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has things about them they wish they could change.
2007-02-25 04:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by djm749 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they do not realize that they are always who they are becoming...
2007-02-25 04:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jedi Baptist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't really like the person they are..... :(
2007-02-25 04:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if they be theirself it would be pretty boring.
2007-02-25 04:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋