I have an ex-boyfriend and I really love him he says he feels the same way about me and I believe him. The problem is hes my ex now. We broke up because I moved and we didnt get to be with each other as much as we wanted to. I still have feelings for him and I know he still haves feelings for me, but he has a girlfriend. I dont know if I should tell him that that theres still feeling there are should I just leave him alone.
2007-02-25 04:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by tabby-bonay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he has a gf and is telling you this stuff, then forget about it.
Do you really want to be dating a guy who tells another girl who is not his gf that he loves her? That could be you if you let him get his way.
2007-02-26 19:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by socal13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very difficult. I know alot of people who have tried them and ended up meeting people in the new area that they moved to. It makes it very difficult to figure out what to do. Do you keep dating the person half way across the country /world, even though you have feelings for someone right in front of you? Do you break up with that person, by phone or e-mail, because it's the only form of communication you have. Alot of them felt more obligated because the person was far away, to stay in a relationship that was slowly dissolving on it's own.
When I had to move for school me and my girlfriend decided it was best to part ways. It was really difficult at first, and there were times when we really wanted to get back together, but we fought it out together because we knew it was best.
Now 2 years later, we're sure it was for the best. I came to school to do what I loved, and met someone who shares my passion, and couldn't be happier. She started working downtown back home and suddenly went from a very shy person to someone who is the life of the party, she's alot more brave and self confidant and she never would have gotten that opportunity with me.
If you were forced to move appart there might be some reason. I'm sure the two of you will always remain friends, but living different lives in different places you will both change alot, and it's best to see where your new life takes you.
Good luck
2007-02-25 12:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, there are plenty of guys out there. a lot of us may think we're in luv when its just puppy luv. i would tell him, but he has a gf so i wouldnt get involved, interfere in their relationship. if he has feelings for you still im sure he would come back for you or at least show it. most long distant relationships dont work out, maybe thats y he moved on and got another gf. i think u should talk to him. but dont get to the point where he breaks up with his gf just so he can go out with you again. u deserve better then that.
2007-02-25 12:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was so into you, he would not have a girlfriend. Just leave it alone, and meet new friends where you have moved to. Stop talking to him so much.
2007-02-25 12:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time before you interfere with his new relationship to be sure that the feelings you have are sincere. You might be emtional over the move and feeling nostalgic. Be sure before you stir things up.
2007-02-25 12:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that you still have feelings for him. Tell him that you guys could call eachother everyday and maybe even have a get together. I don't know worth a shot
2007-02-25 12:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by pony kc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry to break it 2 u honey if he has a girlfriend then he doesnt have feelinggs for u anymore because if he loved you he would have found a way to b with you so i think u shud move on and find sum1 else
2007-02-25 12:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is his relationship with his girl
what does he feel for the other girl then
keep in mind you wouldn't want an x-girl to come and take your boy cuz it would hurt
2007-02-25 12:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lil_B4ByLV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just wait until he's single because he WILL be single again if he has feelings for you
2007-02-25 12:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋