i just left a relationship wiht my five month olds father to move 600 miles away from my five year old daughter to live with my 8 year old daughter and her dad. im very confussed. Ive been here a week and i want to go back home. my situation sucks. I have three children two live in a different state with there fathers i have my 5 mth old. my family, 5 yr old daughter, and babys father live in ohio where im home sick. i dont want to leave my eight year old here though but have no choice do you have any advice for me
2007-02-25 03:54:54 · 8 answers · asked by mygirlsx3hmc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all, why are you separated from your children like this. I think you need to do what you have to do to get this family of your all together. If you are moving around from this guy to that one, then get your priorities straight. Your little children really need your love. To he** with some friggin jerk-wad in another state. Contact the Children's Aid, and ask for assistance to get your family back with you. You might be surprised at the amount of help you will get.
2007-02-25 04:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a very confusing and sad situation. I think you should sit down and make a plan with the fathers. You need to do everything possible to have a close relationship with all of your children. Don't have anymore children until you are stable and have the ability to care for them and raise them with you. Perhaps a family counselor could provide you with some good choices with your childrens best interest in mind. With your situation, I'm sure there's more to it such as who has legal custody, visitation ,etc. You need legal and emotional support. I wish I had an answer for you that would solve your problems, but I think only you and the fathers can make things right for your children. Never give up and always make sure they know that you love them.
2007-02-25 05:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears you are thinking of yourself. What about the older girls? Are they happy living with their dads? Are they well cared for and loved? If so, why disrupt their lives? Are you able to provide for these children. I think you should take a hard look at the lives of your children and do what is best for them. Hopefully, you will not bring another child into this world.
2007-02-25 04:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be a mother and take all of your children and focus just on them !forget the fathers if they can not help you!your children are your responsibility the fathers are not fight for your kids and be a real woman!
2007-02-25 04:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by pgiggles34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one father and don;t make anymore babies until you do!
2007-02-25 04:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes stop having so many children and u wouldn't be in this predicament!!!
2007-02-25 04:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by ynra BTB 4-18-09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need family counseling. Really.
2007-02-25 04:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bornredprincess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...get your tubes tied
2007-02-25 03:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋