ok here is the deal... About 4 months ago my friends told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me... i asked him and he obviously said no, one month later i fount a picture of the same girl on his wallet and he said that his friend put it in there because his girlfriend had his wallet and he didnt want her to see it... then on new year's eve he answered a phonecall and left, i went after him and asked him with who he was talking too and he said that a friend ( it wasn't the same girl) but when i looked at his phone i saw that in fact it was the girl! he said that he did not want to tell me it was her because he knew that it would ruin my night, that she had just called to say happy new year. Then i found an email from her on his mailbox saying that he didnt know how much she cared about him that he was one of the most important people in her life. i know for sure she is not his best friend,last night he went to her birthday party and didn't answer the phone all night, is he fooling me?
2007-02-25 03:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by groovybubs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah...weve been dating for 1 year 8 months
2007-02-25 03:57:45 · update #1
he loves u but he loves her.. he dont want to hurt anyone so he did this or just making a fool out of u
2007-02-25 03:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by dellstar_mofas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds that this boy is acting just like a married man with an extramarital affair. He won't admit it and will try to put the blame on you for preventing him to do things, depriving him of a bit of his freedom. And, at the same time, he doesn't want to let you go, just in case things don't turn right.
Men don't seem to have the same idea on how things must be between two loving people, and polygamy means having several women, and not the other way round.
It's up to you to know if you are ready to close your eyes as many women do to keep their man and be gnawed by doubts all the time.
2007-02-25 12:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Okay, take a step back and read the question you've posted. If this wasn't you in the situation, would you tell another person they were being cheated on?
Yes, he is cheating on you. Not only is he disrespecting you by doing this, but he apparently also thinks you are a moron and that he can come to you with these stupid lines that you've believe. Smarten up, there are other men available who won't treat you like this. Of course, there are others who will, you just have to be sure you learn from this and stand up for yourself.
2007-02-25 11:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes hun he is cheating on you.Even if he is not with her in person. She is on his mind and she wants him.That is why she is calling and trying to be near him. Have the self pride to say goodbye to him.You are better than that and you have a much higher self worth than he has for you.You NEVER EVER need to feel that you are being cheated on.If he will not be the man and say goodbye to you then YOU be the WOman that you are and say Goodbye to him.And find a man that will love and value you for the woman that you are and treat you as such.It will be hard .Best wishes.RAY
2007-02-25 11:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by ????????????????????? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he probably is cheating you. In my experience, when you suspect it going on, it probably is. Especially when he isn't forthcoming and you find stuff to suggest that it is going on. And, he seems to be keeping you and this girl separate - if she was just his friend, why would he do that?
2007-02-25 11:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by mizkayte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and not to secretly. he either thinks your stupid or you ARE. stupid, a healthy couple would never need to ask these kind of questions. You should probably take a step back and decide if your ready for this kind of constant drama.
2007-02-25 11:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by jmarshalld55 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, he's playing with you. dump him. by what you said he likes the other girl, but he doesnt know how to tell you that he loves you, but he is falling in love with the other girl.
2007-02-25 11:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-25 11:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you be my friend too, hit me up you know my email address on yahoo
2007-02-25 12:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by meekoe2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...obviously he is not fooling you but he is making a fool out of you....dump him and move on....today....good luck
2007-02-25 11:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋