What do girls want to hear? For us guys is being "Here's a problem, here's a fix." What does girls want us to say instead of the solution? If I say "oh", the girl will think that i don't care about her. Any clues please?
2007-02-25 03:42:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes all she wants is for someone to accept her feelings for what they are. Acknowledge. Validate. Don't judge her for feeling the way she is feeling. For example, If she says she is finding her new job really tough. Instead of bombarding her with "why?" "u shdnt feel that way" or "here's what u can do"....all she wants is for u to say "I understand. This sure could be tough". And give her a hug, or hold her hands. She doesn't want an argument or criticism. All she wants is for someone to accept.
Gradually u can suggest solutions (esp if u feel she is open to it) but she doesn't want that immediately.
If she asks "what shd I do?" then ofcourse it's clear she is looking for help.
2007-02-25 06:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make a woman happy tell her what she wants to hear.
2007-02-25 11:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I'm not sure wat your really tryin to say. But girls always want to hear the truth. Well not always, depending on wat type of girl she is. Jus whenever you say "oh" make sure you say it with a believable tone in your voice. You get me?
2007-02-25 11:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't understand the question
2007-02-25 11:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋