i used to love it before..........so what's wrong with me he also fells the change in me (my partner i mean)
2007-02-25 01:50:23 · 11 answers · asked by thatgal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Short answer? You're growing up! You're seeing that Sex is just two bodies, slamming together. You're wanting to "Make Love". And that's two totally different things. Have him get to understand that you're not feeling about him, as you once did. Both of you need to change things. Or you need to find someone that warms your Heart. Not just your Crotch
2007-02-25 01:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the time that you are experiencing the "sourness" of sex to your lifestyle. Constant sex with your partner don't give a healthy love or life. It creates an abnormality to your normal situations.
You can have sex once in a while to make you feel excited or "to drink a cool water" after you're tired of working out.
And, fins an alternative way in your life that can change everything.
2007-02-25 09:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by FX777222999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think the problem is??? Psychological or physical? or is he just not pleasing you??? You need to experiment and find out what really turns you on. Did you have a baby? Are you stressed??? There are lots of factors that come into play with our sexual appetites. Sometimes we just go through stages where we want it more than other times.
2007-02-25 09:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno.
Maybe you aren't attracted to him anymore?
Maybe you or he has changed physically and its a turn off?
Maybe the spark has died down and things are too comfortable?
Maybe the sex isn't as good as you like?
Maybe you can try new things with intimacy?
Maybe the relationship is over and you don't feel for him like you used to?
2007-02-25 09:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he generous in regards to what you like and need? Maybe you guys need to try new stuff, techniques, positions, etc. Did you recently start taking birth control pills? They take decrease the testerone in women, reducing desire etc. Depression will do the same.
2007-02-25 09:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by ayse e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you taking birth control?
did y'all have a lot of sex before?
do y'all use toys in the bedroom?
are y'all open to new experiences?
me and my wife have been going threw the same problem for a year now and she if slowly coming around.
shes closed to new things but her birth control is what killed her sex drive but shes feeling it now and I'm not there to enjoy it with her. it relay sucks for me and her because she relay wants me to be home.
2007-02-25 10:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by love less 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might need to go see a doctor. I have heard about women having this problem and its normally solved with hormone replacement therapy.
2007-02-25 09:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have had a change in your hormones, or you are depressed. Have your doctor check you out, it could be birth control pills if you take them, or perhaps you need an antidepressant.......
2007-02-25 09:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to dress sexy and try new positions,try some fantasy play acting just something new to add some zing to your sex
2007-02-25 09:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bordem is my best guess I have seen it happen to many times try getting really really drunk together it helps.
2007-02-25 09:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bleed the Freak 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋