I want to have sex with my girlfriend. She wants to wait until we are married. I say we could do it once we are engaged. What do you think?
2007-02-25 01:05:17 · 24 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, gimme a break. If you waited till you were engaged, then you can wait a little longer. Have some self-control, and never try to pressure her. Do you think that, in fifty years you'll look back and be happier if you fornicated or waited like respectable people?
2007-02-25 01:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ory O Oreo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waiting until your wedding night is a matter of religious issues. You are not supposed to have sex before marriage because it is a SIN. I am not judging ANYONE. I am not married and have three children so I am obviously guilty on that very sin. However that is where the waiting until your wedding night comes in. If you are engaged and want to have sex that is your right. If you are just dating and want to have sex it is your choice. It is not one I am recommending because casual sex with a person you may or may not decide to spend your life with, just for the sake of doing it, is never a good idea. I say go with your heart. If your heart tells you that you are ready and you want to do it and are with someone you truly care about and love then go for it (of course do not GO FOR IT until you are a little older please) . You can only lose your virginity once so make sure it is the right person and the right time, you do not get a do over.
2016-03-28 23:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married|
For sex is much more than just the exchange of pleasures - it is a kind of communication or sign that says that you totally belong to each other - and that is what being married is|
So it is only appropriate that the sign of your total belonging be done in that state of total belonging, which is marriage|
When the sign and the reality don't match (i.e. pre-marital sex), that causes all sorts of problems| For then, what is so special about your wedding night - you are only doing what you have been doing all along| And if the kick-off isn't special, it kind of gives your subconscious the message that the marriage is not special|
If you indulge in pre-marital sex, you vastly reduce general happiness and satisfaction all through your marriage|
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2007-02-25 01:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really wants to wait until she is married let her. respect her wishes. congratulations on the engagement.
2007-02-25 01:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waiting until engagement is ok, but why wait? waiting until marriage doesnt change things.. sooo what are YOU waiting for?? put on the pressure pal.
2007-02-25 01:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That she wants to wait indicates that she's smarter and more level-headed than most women. That alone should earn her a whole lot of points.
2007-02-25 01:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Guncrazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really do anything about it except hope. you can't force her to have sex with you (at least i hope you don't). she has her beliefs and you have to respect them but relationships are all about compromise. she can always give an oral speech with your microphone. the best thing you can do is to stop making it an issue. it's a very tough thing to do but i guarantee that when you stop, she'll be more receptive.
2007-02-25 01:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yap.. wait till marriage is a better choice.
2007-02-25 01:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Its me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to wait then wait don't push her into doing something she doesn't want to do..
2007-02-25 01:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to wait until marriage.
2007-02-25 01:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by spyspy65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋