If your boyfriend hurt you and you didn't want to be with him anymore but he didn't understand why or how he hurt you would you make up an exuese to break up with him or would you tell him the truth that he hurt you for something that he didn't even know he was doing
2007-02-25 00:53:03 · 19 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him the truth. If he tried to argue and you still want out, also tell the truth and say " Hey, I like you but I can't deal with this anymore" and mean what you say....
If nothing else, he will understand and appreciate the fact you treated him like a man.
2007-02-25 01:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always, Always tell the truth. Even if it hurts, you should always be honest. Besides, if you lie, it will come back and bite you in the butt someday(karma!!)
Just sit him down and talk to him about what he did. Make sure he knows that its not ok, and you would not want him to ever do it again!
2007-02-25 08:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you. You should be honest in general and tell him how he hurt you. From there two things can happen, you will tell him and hold him accountable for his actions by not staying with him. Or you can tell him and give him a chance to rectify the situation. It depends on if you still want to be with him. Good Luck.
2007-02-25 08:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sharisse F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him the truth so that he will at least know why you want to break up with him.
2007-02-25 08:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best. If you truly care about a person, you shouldnt have to be making excuses for not wanting to be with them. Lying always makes situations far worse. If both people in the relationship come forward and say how they truly feel, a friendship may still stand.
2007-02-25 09:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my boyfriend hurt me and genuinely did not know what he had done rather than breaking up with him i would tell him what it was that he did that upset me so he knows not to do the same thing again
2007-02-25 08:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by thumberlina69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth!
2007-02-25 08:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him why i'm breaking up with him and i't always better to resolve issues sometimes you find you can work at your problems and work it out if not you just move on.
2007-02-25 09:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Janice M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth is this for girls only?
You should tell him exactly what he did wrong. Otherwise youll end up regreting that you didnt tell him. And he'll end up just resenting you for giving him some bull**** reason for breaking up
2007-02-25 08:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell them you're hurt. Honesty is the best policy
2007-02-25 09:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sabine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋