I am afraid to ask girls out because i am afraid of them rejecting me. Please help me understand why this is (I have experienced heart break, it hurt)
2007-02-25 00:41:22 · 12 answers · asked by Elrond Nolatari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant to put a full stop after rejection, not a question mark lol!
2007-02-25 00:42:32 · update #1
Theres nothing to understand. No one likes to be rejected, you just happen to fear it.
You fear it because you dont want to experience heart break. Im sure I can go into more detail but I dont know anything about your experience with it.
A good way to live life is with the "Go Get Em" attitude. If you are rejected, thats fine. Learn to accept and move on because theres so many girls out there for you to meet.
2007-02-25 00:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Once in a Lifetime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has the fear of rejection. Remember rejection is part of life. Sometimes being rejected isn't such a bad thing. It could keep you from getting involved with the wrong person. The person may not have the same standards as you and it could lead to heart break anyway. Rejection is alot easier to deal with then heartbreak. Healing time is less too. Good luck. Best wishes.
2007-02-25 00:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice talking to girls, relax when you're in their presence. Life's about making choices and heartbreaks are common. There's no need to be afraid of girls rejecting you, if a girl doesn't have any feelings towards you, then it's why they would reject you. Learn from your failures and come out stronger. This way you'll never be afraid of asking girls out.
2007-02-25 00:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all at some point in our life have been hurt and have been rejected. we can't go through life living in a shell all i can say is be yourself enjoy life experence the dating girls may say no but don't let that stand in your way its there loss get out there and enjoy and gave fun good luck
2007-02-25 00:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by carol b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know rejection hurts alot. When being rejected just stand tall, and move on. You'll find the right person.
2007-02-25 00:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take risks sometimes if you really want to do something. People don't get anywhere with what they want sometimes if they don't fear. Fear of girls rejecting you c'mon -
as longs as they don't have fangs to bite you should not fear a girl because she is just a normal human being.
2007-02-25 00:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...but if you think of it this way...we probably all have to go through rejection sometime in our lives...so get over it and ask a gurl out
2007-02-25 01:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by savcav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know where you're coming from. after my highschool sweetie left me my heart was torn into shreds. but i look at it this way, after dealing with a heartbreak like that you can most certainly shrug of a rejection. just give it a few tries. practice makes perfect you know.
2007-02-25 00:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by flamemaster_lang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been afraid of being rejected too.But I've learned that if someone isn't interested in me for who I am, than that's on them because I did my best.
2007-02-25 00:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Troy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we all have it a sometimes.. it is scary to ask someone out! but... what if that person would have said yes!
also now in this modern world, you can txt, email! Lame but it can work. OR write a letter.... awww so romantic! :)
2007-02-25 00:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by turd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋