I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys.
2007-02-25 00:26:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand your dilemma and sympathize with you ,,,, But there's really nothing you can do if she won't listen to you ,,,, You might try asking her to at least one final meeting and tell her face to face what the situation really is and then give her the chance to decide ,,,, She's either going to accept what you say or she isn't ,,,, Only she can do this ,,,, No one else ,,,, After you've explained to her what you've explained in your post then the ball is in her court ,,,, All you can do from that point is wait and see what she does with it ,,,, I think a face to face with her would be allot better than any other form of communication ,,,, There is allot more you can convey in a one on one meeting with her than you could through a phone call or E mail or any other way ,,,, True love is actually a rarity and even though this planet is becoming over populated with people few ever really find it ,,,, So give yourself and her a chance by trying to arrange this meeting ,,,, Give it a try ,,,, You both just might be thankful that you did and very sorry if you didn't ,,,, It certainly wouldn't hurt to at least try ,,,, If she still can't see her way to re-establishing your relationship then that's it ,,,, As I said earlier ,,,, Only she can decide what she wants to do ,,,, There are plenty of fish in the pond ,,,, so to speak ,,,, You can always go fishing and see what and who is out there ,,,, Allot of them come trouble and problem free too ,,,, Yoda said this ,,,,, Good luck ,,,,
2007-02-25 00:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out with your ex. Sit down with her and tell her exactly how you feel. Why you did the things you did, etc. Tell her that you apologize. That goes a long way to be truthful to someone about a situation. Tell her that you love her and that you made a mistake and that you want her back. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. If she loves you she will understand this and you can work things out. Good luck!!!
2007-02-25 08:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Minus the horrible grammar and typing, you remind me a lot of myself after my ex rejected me.
Rule of thumb: Dont get involved in another person's relationship. Make sure her relationship (no matter how menial) is over. You can avoid much drama by making sure they are truly over.
Being friends with someone you have deep feelings for is very hard. Very hard. Be prepared to go through much heartache as it sinks in that you arent together anymore.
2007-02-25 08:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Once in a Lifetime 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey, i may not be a guy like you but believe me i know what you feel.... well, if that's the case, then so be it! Friends... You don't have to suffer like that. There are a lot of girls out there... you know... dying over love?? tsk, tsk, tsk... no offense but i pity you...
Move on without turning back okay?? remember, if love dies, you don't have to die with it...you don't have to leave in this world... coz life is fun... so many things to do... well, God bless you...
2007-02-25 08:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by satome24 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you know that you should have trusted her, but that you were afraid. Tell her that you are sorry and ask her to give you another chance - that the love you feel for her is tremendous and that hope she'll give you one more chance to prove that you trust her.
If she absolutely refuses to give you another chance, then you have to let her go. It will be sad, but eventually you will recover.
2007-02-25 08:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋