my b friend cheated on me?

Question

i found out that my bfriend cheated on me with our mutual friend(he denies it same as her)its his b day party soon and she will b also there.I don't know what to do and how to behave towards her.Plz help

Answer 1

First off, let me ask you this? Do you respect yourself?
If you answered yes, then let me ask you another question.
If he cheated on you, do you think he respects you? The only answer to this question is no.
Let me tell you something I learned a long time ago. Once a cheat, always a cheat. No matter how much you love him or he claims to love you, you can not change his ways.
If you know for a fact that he cheated, dump him. And if he cheated on you with your friend, dump her too. They are not your friends. If you stay with him, not only will you wonder, second guess and question everything he does, but it will drive you crazy. You also have to worry about what kind of diseases he may give you.
Have respect for yourself and tell him to take a hike. Trust me, you will soon learn what type of person he is. My guess is that if you break up with him, he'll end up with the friend anyway.
Don't let yourself become a victim. Be a survivor. A smart one.
Good luck.

Answer 2

If they both deny it then maybe you ought to check the source of information ,,,, You just might be surprised ,,,, If you still have questions in your mind about it then maybe it might be time to think about just how much of a friend this mutual friend really is ,,,, Your options are limited so it comes down mostly to trust ,,,, You have to do what your feelings move you to do but try and keep an open mind ,,,, If he did cheat on you with this mutual friend then it will probably come out sometime later ,,,, Good luck with this

Answer 3

i think of that going out with the boy interior the 1st place in case you didnt love him became right into a foul mistake and in case you're valuable that he cheated, then it can be a good concept to offer him a letter of somekind. because it additionally shows which you nonetheless look after him via taking the time to coach the letter, so as a result wont harm him as lots. And dont subject he will study it, basically say its significant. And he will care, if he loves then you definitely he will probbly attempt and get you back.

Answer 4

tell him that you don't want her to come. first off he cheated on you so if he got any kind of second chance then he's lucky to still have you. say it makes you feel realy uncomfortable that someone will be there at the party that he recently cheated on you with. if hes a good boyfriend then he will accept your wishes and have her not come, if not you should leave him.

oh and with that girl, you don't have to act any way towards her, just don't be associated with her all, don't talk to her don't look at her, she doesn't exist, you can do more when you're not saying anything to her/about her.

Answer 5

I feel like you shouldn't go out with your boyfriend anymore for cheating on you, but just be nice and show how much you care and show up at his party with a small gift. That will make him feel good about himself, and maybe think twice about cheating on you. Don't even react on the girl, just let her be. When your at the party pretend nothing happened. I think you should just move on, and let them be. Forget about them. Just keep a smile on your face, and stand tall. Don't waste your time on people like that. Well, bye!!! :)

Answer 6

I do not know much about the situation, but I will say, do not let him take advantage of you. Cheating is a terrible terrible thing to do to someone and it shouldn't be taken this lightly.

I suggest you distance yourself away from him and his girlfriend. Tell him youre going to take a break from the relationship to be able to compile your feelings. If you feel you can forgive him and he is repenting for cheating, then try to work out the relationship.

Again, do not let him take advantage of you.

Answer 7

Are you sure he cheated or are you just over reacting again?
If he did cheat on you then break up with him and don't go to his Birthday party.

Answer 8

Tell your b/f that if she is there you won't be put your foot down what you should have done is put your foot right in both their a**es Just don't go... how do you know he cheated on you?
Drop the ZERO and get yourself a HERO..

Answer 9

If you're quite young, then dump him and move on... otherwise if you accept this, you'll find yourself attracting the same type of guys who will continue to do this to you.

Respect yourself and find someone who will respect you.

I would also have a talk with your friend cos if he did it to you... he's bound to do it to her eventually.

Answer 10

That depends. I personally would break up but if you do then you lose that boyfriend when thier is a chance he isn't cheating. Follow your heart that is what is going to break.