i wen't out with him a couple months ago and we're still friends, really good friends. when i went out with him, he stopped smoking pot, he went to therapy for it. i know he likes being around me because he tells me all the time.
the thing is, he has a girlfriend now. shes 15 and he's 18, i just call it desperate. he always tells me that he doesn't like her but isn't breaking up with her when he says he will. then he tells me we should hang out more often, again like we used to. his girlfriend told her friend she feels threatened by me, and it's awkward when i'm around her.
what should i do if i feel like he likes me and not his so called "girlfriend".
2007-02-25 00:21:27 · 12 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry too much let him run his own course, he probaby likes the support of you being there, kinda like a srecurtiy blanket. He might like you but he might actually like this girl too thats why he always says he's gonna break up with her, and then never does, he doesn't know what one to dissapoint. if he really likes you then in time everything will fall into place.
2007-02-25 00:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though he likes you a lot but not enought to break-off with his girlfriend so he could pursue things with you. Maybe he just considers you a really good friend and while he may not like her girlfriend, it seems that he has deeper feelings for her. It's like platonic love (which he has for you) as opposed to romantic love (which he has for his girlfriend).
Your action now depends on how you really feel about him in return. Are you wanting your relationship to go deeper than friendship? If you are just happy being friends with him and that you both enjoy each other's company, then continue being his friend. However, if you are aiming for something else, then try to minimize being together because it is unfair to him, to you, and to his girlfriend.
2007-02-25 08:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by woman in the well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him! Just tell him how you think it is! He will tell you if you are right.
And if you don't want to be together with him anymore, then you shouldn't meet him that often if you really think he likes you more than his girlfriend. Because how can he be in a serious relationship when you are around all the time and confuse him?!
2007-02-25 08:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by mc_fly_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of truth to the saying, "Action speaks louder than words". What does his "actions" tell you??? He evidently likes this girl or he wouldn't be with her. If you want to know, just come out and ask him. Ask him how he feels about you? Why would that be so hard? If he told you "Yes" I like you. You can go from there. If he says "No" you can move on too. Anyway, you would be a winner!! Good luck.......
2007-02-25 08:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make out with him or show some kind of physical interest.
Or aside from that blunt approach you could just sit down and tell him how you feel. If you are going to have a loving relationship with someone you have to talk about your feelings anyway so might as well start with how you feel about them.
2007-02-25 08:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Unstable Mentality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it! something messy must have happened that you dont know about. because if a guy doesnt like his girlfriend he'll either cheat on her or break up with her, and that guy hasn't done either. you should go out and find your own guy, not someone elses. because the way this looks, it seems like hes keeping you on the side, just in case, which no girl should ever be. go out and find your own guy and then rub it in your friends face. why be his nothing when you can be someones everything?
2007-02-25 08:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by jazzy xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know that it is not right to enter a 3 way relationship. You will be hurt someday. But to resolve this confront the guy and tell here what you feel. And if he really likes you he would break up with his girl.
2007-02-25 08:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by sNickerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him. maybe hes waiting to see if you like him. that could be why he isnt breaking up with this other girl. he could be saying that he will to tell you that he likes you, but is waiting for you to tell him you like him before he actually goes through with it. and if you are closer to his age he probably likes you more anyway. bc guys at 18 and girls at 15 might be able to have the same mentallity. the girl will be hanging aroung guys her own age at school and thusly knocking her down a peg. so just let him know that you like him. it shouldnt ruin anything, friends get attracted to eachother all the time.
2007-02-25 08:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by flamemaster_lang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rule of thumb for these kind of situations.
Do not get romantically involved in a relationship that doesnt involve you.
If he really is interested in you, and you are interested in him, make sure he has broken up with the girl. You would be asking for a lot of unnecessary drama if became the "other girl" in his relationship.
Use common sense, and follow your feelings.
2007-02-25 08:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by Once in a Lifetime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET AWAY FROM HIM. His girlfriend is too young for him in the first place. Secondly, why would you want to pursue a relationship with someone who is capable of going out on his woman?
2007-02-25 08:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋