he is co worker and we have been talking alot nothing overly flirty just get to know ya stuff and i am attracted to him but im sure that if we did start something he would be expecting much more from me than i can give right now and i would end up letting him down and i would lose what we have now and it would be awkward to work together and on the same note for me to explain this to him would make it weird also ...and for me not to acknowledge the gift he left on valentines is also getting weird he was out of town last week but i will see him tomorrow ...im a little nervous any advice ?
2007-02-25 00:08:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be nervous! This is nothing you can't handle. There's no need to acknowledge the Valentine's gift - it was given to you by a SECRET admirer, you don't need to mention it at all until somebody confesses that it was they who sent it. There's also no need to explain your feelings fully, certainly not at this stage. You should do that with a boyfriend not a workmate. And why do you feel that you wouldn't be able to give him as much as he would want? It sounds like you're not really looking for a relationship at the moment, is that right? So maybe you shouldn't consider taking your harmless flirting any further? And there's nothing wrong with a bit of harmless banter at work - makes Monday to Friday so much more fun! My advice to you is just carry on as normal, keep him as a friend until either he forces the issue or you feel that you want something deeper with him. Good luck!
2007-02-25 00:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bertie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him. Thank him for the gift. If you can't get involved now just tell him that, but maybe you should give it a try; he may not expect as much as you think and what makes you think you would let him down?
2007-02-25 08:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Runa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if it was a friend playing a prank at work? If you think it is this guy why don't you ask him and be straight forward about the question.
Things happen for a reason, many times things happen like falling in love when you least expect things to happen.
2007-02-25 08:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Emily L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mention it as a joke to him. "Hey a secret admirer left me a valentine, I wonder if it was ________" obviously not him. Then wait to see his reaction to what you say. This is one of my favorite stages in a relationship, enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-02-25 08:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave a note where he will find it. Say something like, "Thank you for my gift, if you want to talk, make yourself known."
2007-02-25 08:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by littleredhen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself!If he want more from you show some signal that make him understand!!!!!Okay !!Good Luck!!!
2007-02-25 08:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Aya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it one day at a time and always be honest with him...good luck
2007-02-25 08:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
share feelings
2007-02-25 08:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋