when talking about love my friend will be the last person to get involve with..this b'coz he knows nothing about love..he told me that he doesn't know which aspect he should be looking for to fall in love with someone..the outer appearence, money, attitude, status or else..please help me with my friend's problem..
2007-02-24 23:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by spellweaver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it isn't just one. A person is a package. You have to consider all things about someone. A lot of money doesn't make a person beautiful, just like appearance doesn't make a person beautiful. For example..I have a 17 year old who is blond, blue-eyed, and very pretty. That is until she opens her mouth. She can be the most ugly person then. She talks down to people, smarts off to them and can be nasty at times. We aren't rich but she thinks the world owes her everything. I sure didn't raise her to be this way. Tell your friend to consider all of the things you have mentioned. Don't go by looks alone..
2007-02-24 23:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is something like a mystical experience|
You are given a sudden vision or intuition of the other person's unique personal beauty|
And this brings a rapture of joy like none other| It is being granted a glimpse of eternity|
Now if your friend is asking what he is asking, he simply does not know| It cannot be explained - it can only be experienced| Either a person has a susceptibility to it or they don't|
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2007-02-25 08:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you cant 'look for love'. There is not one particular thing that makes one person fall in love or love another. What may turn someone else on my disgust me. It just depends on the person. So let your friend know to sit back and enjoy the ride and if love is there it will find its way. Love is funny like that.
2007-02-25 07:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never look for love. Get to know all kinds of people instead, outer appearance, money, attitude,status, kind, helpful, anyone...just anyone whom you think you like to know. Go ahead, just be yourself. You'll know who you love. It comes naturally. So, let go of your worries.
2007-02-26 02:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, of course ur falling in love with someone that have every aspect that you want as a lover. but the importance is her attitude. if she is a very good looking person, but have a very bad attitude, better forget it. because as a normal person, of course we want someone good. am i right?
2007-02-27 09:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAN I TRUST YOU WITH MY HEART.... that's what it's all about for me ..... now and forever.
once was promised forever and a day...and i will love that one as long, if not longer.
and i trusted him with my heart.
life took him away from me. and left my heart cold... but i parted out my heart, only to have it stepped on and beat about...
caution is what your friend is using. and that is not a bad thing. we live a a society of 'free love' and it's not really love sometimes. we all just want to do it once and do it right.... at least that's what me and my girls want. don't know what the guys are after..... well.....as far as LOVE is concerned..
good luck figuring out a guy.....
2007-02-25 07:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋