me and my husband have been together 9 yrs. we've both been on/off drugs. he's left me so many times, he blamed everything on me(to his family and his ex). i found out and i'm so angry i don't know what to do.he's off drugs ,i'm off drugs but i cant forget everything he has said about me.so why do i still love and want him? everytime i see or hear from him i think of what he has said and done!! but then when we hang up or he leaves i hurt so bad.i dont understand this! does anyone undestand this?does anyone have any advice
2007-02-24 23:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by babyblues 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
2 choices to make either you let go of the anger
or move on
but most of all keep up the good work and stay off drugs
Good luck
2007-02-24 23:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 years of fights and drugs didnt help things much and i am sure there were many fights.. and 9 years is hard to let go so easy.. yes i understand you feelings.
2007-02-25 08:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop with the hostility. It's time you accepted the fact that he's as imperfect as you deny you are.
2007-02-25 07:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need deaddiction.
2007-02-25 08:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya either gotta let what he said go , i may be hard , but you have major resntment , let it go , if you want to be with him ....... if ya cant then ya gotta dump the prick , and look me up ........
2007-02-25 07:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will care him and adjust more
2007-02-25 07:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋